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Posted By: sgctxok Successful Women - 04/06/05 11:56 PM
Women:


Sage

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So many good things...BUT...is that enough?

So many good things...BUT..is that enough (part2)

2003 KLA Group

So many good things...It IS enough...(part 3)

When you say no to champagne....

Make things better by looking ahead....

And the day came ...

Starting again...with a Beginner's Mind

Indulging my stylish side....

Shine like the star you are!

Answering the door....

Gratitude for what I have...

Loved and Supported...

Prepare for a wonderful discovery

...the teacher appears

An Exercise For Forgiveness

Attractive Propositions

Letting my weight down...

HIgh Levels of Acceptance

The heart to conquer it...

Sage's KLA Thread

The miracle is this....

The love you initiate...

Looking backward...but only to move forward

Looking backward...but only to move forward TWO

Looking backward...but only to move forward THREE

Looking backward...but only to move forward FOUR

Looking backward but only to move forward FIVE

Looking backward but only to look forward SIX

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Me

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Saphire’s threads………

Communicating with OW

Open Marriage?

As I forgive, I shall be healed

And All Manner of Things Shall be Well

The Long & Winding Road

Sapphire's story

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btw......there are LOTS more examples than these.....my memory is just not great. So let's do the searches to help Newcomers.

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Posted By: sage Re: Successful Women - 04/07/05 11:44 AM
Here are some posters to check out:

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slowly (piecing with style)

the journey is the reward

Slow Sacred Journey

Journey Beyond Knowledge

Journey's Rest

Meditative Travels

Understanding My Travel Companion

Still Learning

Life in a Day

Delighting in Details

Welcoming Myself Home

Being Specific

Cultivating The Talent

Coexisting Gracefully with the Unresolved

Resonance

Still Resonating

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A shameless promotion for my thread!

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Ellie (who totally rocks!)

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More as I find them...

Sage
Posted By: sage Re: Successful Women - 04/07/05 12:04 PM
More:

Phoenix_In_Bloom
PIB (who doesn't post much anymore because she's pregnant!)

Phoenix In Training

He upgraded our meal to dinner & movie...now what?

Would you want to know?

Staying focused.

Wow...this is where I belong!

Time to start living

I received 2 kisses and a call the next morning!

My Monkey is reading Divorce Remedy!

Meet in the Middle

HomeWarming Party for Phoenix In Bloom!

Solid as a Rock, Safe Within the Harbor

It's the little things that count!

Be like a Bird!

I believe something wonderful is going to happen!

Blooming Blossoms; Sprouting Seeds

Transforming into a Pillar of Strength

Creating a life full of passion, joy, and beauty!

Graduate School...Here I come!!

Ancient as a stone, strong as the sea

2nd Grad Class

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Talitsa

Working it from the Other Side

What does Forgiveness Mean to You?

Need Help on Compliments and Praising!

No R Talks??????

What do you like about your mate?

Baby Steps, Backsteps and Leaps of Faith

Re: Step Number 1 - Start with a Beginner's Mind

Can Two Alphas Live Together?

Return to the Pack

Before and After/Extreme Makeover

It's as Clear as Mud

The Year of Seismic Activity

Healing or Stuck?

Goals Met and Moving Forward!

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Trying24now

Please explain what this means.

Here's my sit. could use a friend

Ugh Oh HELP

5 Love Languages..HUH?

Wanted to share a GLIMMER of hope

I'm having an A with my Alien

Positives Round-up Roping in a new R

HOME AGAIN....ROUND 2

Welcome to T2's Tunnel, I'm Redecorating

The PHEONIX formerly known as T2

2004 The Year of T2

So THIS is HAPPINESS...go figure!

STILL KICKIN'

ONE YEAR LATER.....LIFE AFTER BETRAYAL


more to come...

Sage

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Posted By: sage Re: Successful Women - 04/07/05 02:03 PM
eyesopened -- her wonderful thread!

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Jeannine's threads

Great sex, still in trouble

In grave dispair

In Grave Despair continued

A Ray of Hope?

A Ray of Hope - I hope

Working With New Seeds

Living in Limbo Land

Water in the Rocks

Time of Echoes

Green Leaf and Paper Lantern

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Bridget's threads are awesome!

Sage
Posted By: huh? Re: Successful Women - 04/07/05 02:43 PM
As a newcomer, I want to thank all of you for doing this. I have glanced over a few of them and can already see things that can help. Sage, your goals and how you know if you succeed them have given me ideas on how to improve mine. Thank you all. Linda
Posted By: sage Re: Successful Women - 05/10/05 11:57 AM
Bump

Sage
Posted By: ANS Re: Successful Women - 05/10/05 12:39 PM
Tree

Treesa2!

to go on the trip or not.... the expensive hockey tickets!

how do you "go dark" when living together with kids?

slow dancing or tapping furiously - part 2

I THINK the divorce is busted?!!! NOW what?

piece by piece like slowlee slowlee

piecing and renovating... similarities

2nd anniversary Post Bomb" and we are still here

It takes time but it works... I am proof!

Posted By: Heart2Heart Re: Successful Women - 05/10/05 02:17 PM
How about Calystra?
Right now I can't find her old threads, but I think Sage and/or Pam might have the link...
Her Newcomer threads with goals were great!
Posted By: sage Re: Successful Women - 05/10/05 02:29 PM
Quote:

How about Calystra?



Ah, yes, Cal! How could we leave her off?

Cal's Threads (read from the beginning!)

Sage
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Women - 08/22/05 08:41 PM
How about jamie!!

Hanging in there, but....

He's way too comfortable!

Great vacation and starting fresh....

Things are better than ever!

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Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Women - 08/22/05 08:48 PM
Here's some threads from Jilly!

Seeking all opinions on the coming HOLIDAYS

He lied (duh)....There is an ow

Thanks Michele-Our divorce has been busted!
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Women - 08/24/05 04:54 PM
Let's not forget 17baker445! One of the finest!

Help....Anniversary Blues!

I can't believe it ..... an APOLOGY!

My marriage has never been better!

Update on Success!

Be sure to search out her other posts, and the great wisdom she has shared with others here!!

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Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Women - 08/24/05 05:24 PM
Here are some threads from KarenMP that you should also take a look at!

Just beginning the process

I like it here.

What happened last night

The kids

I really goofed!!!

What do you say??

September 3......

Family upsets me

Good news, but....

Need quick advice

Finished reading, CT

It was a year ago tonight....

Just a little visit back.

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Posted By: amd Re: Successful Women - 08/24/05 11:59 PM
Sage,
I have been reading your early posts--talk about a success story! When you have a chance, would you stop by my thread "when to separate." Sorry, I don't know how to do the link for you. I see some similarities in our situations, but my H is thinking about moving out, and I really don't want him to go. I'd appreciate your input.

Thanks,
amd
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Women - 08/25/05 07:44 PM
Look through these threads for some wonderful inspiration from matilda!

Getting over it

intimate relations

what can he do?

Still getting over it!!

"I'll think about it tomorrow!"

Is it love or is it guilt?

Starting over -- one more time!

Looking through different eyes!
Posted By: sage Re: Successful Women - 08/26/05 06:13 PM
Hey, amd,

I found your thread so look for me there!!!

Sage
Posted By: Mellers Re: Successful Women - 08/29/05 12:58 PM
Hi everyone!

I'm glad to call myself a success story - find me in Piecing under "This feels like honey..."

Mel <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />

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And here's are the links!

DBing when you aren't married?

There must be a great party on in the cave...

Birdies singing outside the cave...wakey wakey...!

Maybe the cave isn't so inviting now?

Out of the cave and into the bubble...?!

Stepping out of my own cave!!

This feels like honey...


Good to see you back, my dear!!

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Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Women - 09/14/05 04:22 PM
Here's the tale, from the beginning, of Wilma, and her rocky life in Bedrock!!

New DBer on the block needs your support, please!

New DBer on the block...(new thread)

Life in Bedrock (Not-so-new DBer now...new thread)

Bedrock vs. the Real World: A New Era Begins

Getting down to Bedrock: Compassion Rules!

Living in Bedrock 'til we make it Back to the Future!

Back to Bedrock and the Hidey Hole

High Hopes in Bedrock

Life in Bedrock: Always an Adventure

Life in Bedrock: Resistance is Futile

Life in Bedrock: Fred WILL Be Assimilated!

Getting Down to Bedrock: In Search of Solutions

Learning a New Dance: Let's Do the Bedrock Bump

Life in Bedrock: Redecorating the Cave

Life in Bedrock: Wilma Runs While Fred Walks

Life in Bedrock: Wilma, Solo

Life in Bedrock: Wilma Gets Mad – Finally

Life in Bedrock: Wilma Gets Lucky...Finally!

Wilma Glimpses Life Outside of Bedrock: Who Knew?

Life in Bedrock: Even My Thread's Confused!
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Women - 09/15/05 11:23 PM
Here's to my friend LeeP!

So glad I found you all- any hope for this crazy scene?

Got a letter from WAH -please help.

Meeting H tonight

Did I make a grave mistake?

Before the new beginning- need advice

ADVICE TO WALKAWAYS TRYING TO HELP THEMSELVES

Shifting balance and another chance

2002 KLA Group

Staying focused on the good stuff

How to keep up the strength?

I have failed, H wants D

Growing Up, moving forward with H?

If you could have a say in it...

Making the Leap
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Women - 09/26/05 03:56 PM
Here's DebM!

Can love come back?

Time to throw in the towel?

a little OR talk,,,

Just curious...

Can anyone make sense of this?

Changes

Blew it badly-need help!!

Craving OR talk--restrain me!

Patience paying off????

Congrats DEFINITELY Premature; Advice Needed!

Prayers for XOW, anyone?

One year reunited
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Women - 09/28/05 05:57 PM
Here are some of the threads from iffer, one incredibly strong DB'er!

New here...not sure what to say...

Is it the little signs that are good?

Need help FAST...have an hour

Keep the hope..it comes in little things!

H took D to OW's for first time...bawling here...

Desparately need to vent...

Need advice...is this bad to do?

COULD be excellent DB op with WAH...suggestions?

Excellent DB op with WAH...part 2 plus he just threw me for a HUGE loop.

Progressing to toddler steps, and THEN SOME!!

OW is putting on the pressure - BIG TIME...not me! WAH is on his way home SOON.

OW crashing and burning, but I am flying high and H is closer every day.

Step by step, day by day...H is on his way - back to ME!

Sun is shining, birds are singing, love is in the air - H IS COMING HOME!!!

OMG IT's sunday morning after....baby who the heck is H?

Getting close to being the WAS myself! Input on email pls. H close...BUT...

New day, new thread, new H and M is forming...

H is entering the building...has left OW

Not over yet...but neither is May - crisis averted for now

DECISION TIME FOR H..me or OW. Gut, don't fail me now!

If you love something, set it free..and I DID! And it's back already! Need HELP pls.

I have made a decision about H...You won't believe this twist!

Ding dong the witch is dead...and the M is ALIVE!!!

DBing for life, maintaining the marriage - questions welcome

WAH home, now what do I do with him? Maintaining once again

Well I'm back
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Women - 10/10/05 04:28 PM
Here's an inspitational thread from crazy.......

Dear Farmboy...and all who wanted out
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Women - 10/10/05 05:20 PM
Here's munccin!!

Need advice desparately

Is he having an affair??

Hope is gone -- ready to give up...

Did I make a mistake?

Valentine Update

H wants to come home and work things out!!!

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Posted By: sgctxok Re: Successful Women - 10/12/05 04:26 PM
JJ...you are the linkmaster!!!!
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Women - 10/13/05 09:05 PM
Thanks, sg! Makes my fingers tired, but it's well worth it!

Here's Zelda's story!!

need some advice bad

Need help ASAP please

A question for everyone

Need some advice please

Nancy PLEASE HELP

Zymphos new thread

Need quick help please

My H asked me to marry him
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Women - 10/13/05 10:51 PM
Here's more of kml, who's been such a great help to so many here, DB'ing her way through love, and life in general!

Valentine's Day - is it a massacre?

Valentine's Day Massacre - the whole story

Valentine's Day Massacre - the Happy Ending

Valentine's Day Massacre - Moving Forward Together

Valentine's Day Massacre - The Piecing Chronicles

Valentine's Day Massacre - New Challenges

Valentine's Day Massacre - Anorexia, OCD, and tics

Valentine's Day Massacre - The Synopsis

Valentine's Day Massacre - the Neverending Story

Valentine's Day Massacre - Rolling along

Valentine's Day Massacre - Our Lips Are Sealed
Posted By: 1Survivor Re: Successful Women - 10/20/05 12:22 AM
Holy Cow SAGE! You helped me find the "old BD" me...my name on here use to be Trying24now! You had linked one of my threads in your Successful Women thread. I really enjoyed re-reading it because I still feel exactly the same about the things I mentioned in those posts!
I'd like to add that since those "bad old days" I've been promoted twice at work and I'm a new, much happier me than I've ever been at any time in my life.

Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Women - 03/24/06 06:06 PM
Here’s the story of So_lost!!

I have almost 100 posts on this thread and they are mostly from me...need more advice

Not sure if my M is worth Dbing

Please help me interpret this sudden angry change in H again?? How do I handle this?

Still waiting on H to come home....Lots of toddler steps going on...Patience....

It's over I cannot handle anymore lies or hurt...Please respond need urgent help

H is making big, huge steps to get back home...patience

H was on the verg of coming back home.... I think I blew it Please help

Trying to go dark... need all the support I can get right now

Almost 6mos at this...very tired, and sad

I waited so long to say this...
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Women - 04/02/06 01:04 AM
Here’s how Shay5 worked her way over to piecing!!!

this is my first posting, was doing fine with DB but let anger set me back!

he mentally wants to stay but emotionally gone! am I doing this right?

help advice needed -therapy makes me angry at my H!

advice needed, so confused

ready to let go- after one year of trying to let go

Daring to dream-

Dreaming still... but Impatiently !!

New thread...new me? and maybe a new R

Working on a new R; jumping over to piecing!!

H is back- dont let me ruin everything !

Shay's update: Trust and Faith
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Women - 04/07/06 05:20 PM
And here’s IAChild!!

When the ExW is the OW? Help-My Story

SOS -- Panic Attack -- HELP!!

The First Days

A New Day?????

Another New Day!

MH's Solution Journal

Yet Another New Day!

Ambivalence in a New Day

Confusion in a New Day

Turning Corners in Another New Day

180's in a New Day

Okay...Yet Another New Day

Success in a New Day...Finally!

Still in the Driver's Seat on This New Day

Springing Forward In A New Day
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Women - 04/09/06 11:47 PM
Here's princess7!!

My husband wants a divorce!

Not sure of my next step.....could use some advice

Are things turning around.......?

Are things turning around.......part 2

I thought this deserved it's own thread

The missing weekend and then some.....

My H has moved home!

Just stopping by.....
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Women - 04/10/06 10:33 PM
And here's pbutterfly!!!

Overwhelmed... where to begin?

Help! Having "one of those days" - what do you do?

Working on things... but not coming together... help!

How To Detach -- Post your advice, please!

Learning to fly again....
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Women - 04/12/06 09:42 PM
Here's the story of hoping!!

newcomer

I'm new, need advice and support

help, need advice

help, it it mlc , or just an excuse???

Where do I go from here?

It's going slow, but i still have hope

We've only just begun...

we've only just begun...or have we?

It's going slow..not really going anywhere..

Am I really piecing or just hoping too much!!!

New to mlc..old to bb!

Doubts are returning....

We had our talk.......

We talked..again...

great news...h wants m to work!!!
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Women - 04/13/06 04:09 AM
And chia!!

Aaaahhh!!!

Maybe things are turning around!

Woohoo! H back for a month!!
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Women - 04/15/06 04:48 PM
1dayatatime!

New Here Need Advise

Just Noticing Some Baby Steps

Piecing oh so slowly...

D'bing but struggling

Things are looking up
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Women - 04/15/06 06:07 PM
Here's 2Learn, previously known as alottolearn!

think I've found the right place to post...heeelp

need experienced DBers to help me stay the course

Somebody, please, talk to me

Surprised by rage

sad story

Jamie's post

What a difference a couple of months can make!

Total Recovery from an Affair

what is an inappropriate relationship?

Let's build this topic into a real dynamo!

Our story (long but happy ending!)

Wise words needed

Solution thinking-cap corner

Need a little help here...

Thanks for the helpful thoughts!

Hi, I'm alottolearn returning for a visit

Living with a workaholic spouse

Mid-nuptial agreements

Depression is getting the better of me, help

The sunny side

Doing much better away

Making myself the best person I can be

Encouragement

This is unsettlingly familiar

Brush up needed on lovingly setting boundaries

Back on Track!

2L's goal page

Hi! Good news and challenges

Life is better than ever for us!
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Women - 05/29/06 07:48 PM
lifecycle.......

Does it ever get easier?

Intimacy when separation looming?

Not "feeling" separated
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Women - 05/29/06 10:11 PM
Korms!!

In desperate need

I need help right now!

My anniversary tomorrow

Where to now?! - Only forward!

Not quite in piecing - but might be soon. Help!

A brightness in my Smile!

There is light!

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Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Women - 05/30/06 02:08 AM
Belle90

Full of doubts; can it be fixed??

Is it working??

What direction do I turn??

What direction do I turn?..part 2

What direction do I turn ?..part 3

What direction do I turn? ...part 4

What direction ...part 5

U-Turn in progress

Getting the old Belle back!
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Women - 05/30/06 03:04 AM
Dana

26 years of marriage gone

Is it too late for DB?

Why Do I Want Him Back?

H has dumped OW

Thanks to you

I can't blow it this time!

How do you trust again?

Can't get over the affair

Afraid to be me

What Kind Of Fool AM I?

Renewing vows for my sake

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Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Women - 05/30/06 07:00 PM
Duchess

Moving right along...

Moving right along 2nd chapter

Tea and Sympathy

Tea and Sympathy(2)

Tea and Sympathy(3)

Tea And Sympathy(4)

Where do I go from here?Tolerate more of the same or shake things up?

Tolerate more of the same? Shake things up?Part 2

Duke and Duchess: A shaky realm.

The Duke and Duchess: A shaky realm(2)

The Duke and Duchess: The trust is gone,where do I go from here?

Getting a life...giving space: The way to go!

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Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Women - 06/03/06 07:09 PM
Myrna

Preparing for Homecoming and a new M

Shacking up with thankfulness

Myrna? An EXCELLENT update
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Women - 06/04/06 08:26 PM
dfb

Hi

Trying again with a more detailed post! Help!

Ex-B maybe OW - HELP!

I Grew a Backbone!

Breaking my Codependency

To friend or not to friend??

He Was My MATCH!!!!!!

Getting a Life

He said he loved me but can't remember.

Locked out but PMA up

Inspiration, love, acceptance and less pouting

Recharging my batteries

You are the one I want...

Tying this year up with a big, pretty bow...

New Year, New Me!

A girl's gotta do what a girl's gotta do...

Having an A and a friendship with ex-b....

Wow, I'm here....

Moving, marriage, hurricanes

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Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Women - 08/05/06 11:55 PM
Changed

New, help! 1st official "D" meeting tomorrow

When is an OR question okay?

Low Point

Letter to H - need advice

Pain laced with hope

SUCCESS possible: Turning it over
Posted By: sgctxok Re: Successful Women - 08/07/06 06:09 PM
Thank you, JJ!
You're the best!
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Women - 08/18/06 04:23 PM
Short, but sweet.....

HoldingOut

New here, seems to be working but need some help..

How do you delay them from filing?

WAH wants to move back in
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Women - 08/18/06 04:38 PM
karusso

Need Help Taking the next step...what next???
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Women - 08/18/06 07:10 PM
JML

"I never loved you"

Somebody Stop Me

How Did You Tell Your Kid(s)

My WAH is supposed to be miserable by now!

crisis averted; psycho ho not pregnant

New Month, New Thread, New OW for WAH

WAH and OW and Bears, oh my!

OW gone, WAH Actually Being Nice...

Things Better Then Ever...but the pace is slooooow

Is He Using Me?

Patience is a Virtue - a almost-success story?

I Get To Post In This Forum Now!

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Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Women - 08/21/06 09:07 PM
amyb

Feel marriage is over - H wants out

MLC - Confusing

Never give up hope and faith!
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Women - 08/22/06 10:20 PM
Confusitron

Bipolar Spouse

This D may be busted
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Women - 08/23/06 08:14 PM
2much

so confused....

hurting inside...

confused at what to do anymore...

always suspicious...driving me nuts!!

so hard not to show him i love him

when to have the R talk??

Not exactly sure what to do??

How to become friends again...

Starting over...

New info come to light, try new approach...

In the meantime...

Anyone else in "limbo land"??

Seem to be moving forward....

Is it ok not to talk about what happened??

Still hurts sometimes...

Communication skills need some improvement...

One day at a time...baby steps!

Patience paid off!!

Looking to the future to let the past fade away!!
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Women - 08/25/06 07:03 PM
alaskangal

Mixed Messages

Warm Front in Alaska!

Newcomers, You can do it!

Piecing...a new life for my son and myself

I've really lost him this time...

He's filling out the papers

Friend to Friend...then Love again?

He's Not Happy so He's Throwing Me Away

Piecing Myself Back Together

I'm Back in the Saddle Again!

Falling In Love All Over Again

Hello All! Things are GREAT! Akgal here

Piecing A Marriage Together...Together

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Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Women - 08/26/06 03:58 PM
Ange

Acting as if and stuffing it all....

Just another story

Still at arm's length
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Women - 08/26/06 04:31 PM
BeingMe

Not sure I want this marriage, but trying

Back on Track

Moving On with H
Posted By: MnSPD Re: Successful Women - 08/27/06 12:33 AM
How about;
marriedthreemonths
pipeliners_wife

Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Women - 08/28/06 04:14 PM
Thanks MnSPD! Here they are....

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married_three_months

Trying to be patient Help!

Done

he come home- now what

Is there hope?

new H! new thread

Should I give our marriage another chance?

Should I give our marriage another chance?

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Pipeliners_wife

4 months pregnant and alone

is 26 yrs too young for a mlc

Long distant relationship

H having affair

H scared and confused

Marriage saved

dealing with the whispers

WAH working on R, what now?

2 years ago

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Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Women - 08/28/06 07:55 PM
biv_b

Back to square one?! - A success story gone wrong (VERY,VERY long!)

update - I know what I must do...

I'm moving back home!

Well, I have arrived at piecing... need a pep talk
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Women - 08/29/06 07:34 PM
ChristineE

Please Help...I don't know what to do!!!

Is it guilt or a possibility?

New member...very confused!

DB is working...now what?

How can you tell if S is coming around?

Christine's graduate-level DB Course!

Has Christine graduated to piecing?

A battle of wills...and Christine is winning!

Divorce Busted...MIracles do Happen!!!

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Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Women - 08/29/06 09:13 PM
Cindy_F

can't make a commitment

Move in or not?

Back together!

Now we are NOT back together

h changed his mind AGAIN!

Is this marriage right for me?

LTR TO H: PLEASE ADVISE!

Now fighting about visitation

URGENT! MTG W H TONIGHT!!

One more time! may be the winner....

Totally Floored!

He says he wants the D for sure!

I'm getting a divorce!

Fighting for my M and H

emergency post!@!!!

Stopping the runaway train!

STILL fighting for M & H

Seize the Day!

Got to Play Nice...it's working!

Follow the Word...Follow my Heart

Moment by Moment

To begin again...

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Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Women - 08/29/06 10:20 PM
Cupcake

OK, Finally ready to talk to you guys

I THINK I am piecing......

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Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Women - 08/29/06 11:49 PM
JackieH aka Dagny

Does the pain stop?

Christmas in Muckville

Muckville, Limboland, Where's this journey leading

Stonehenge exists in Muckville

Finding Joy in Muckville

Accentuate the Positive

Eliminate the Negative

Who is John Galt?

Taking the Plunge and Moving to Piecing

Waiting for the Happily Ever After Part

DB Failure

The Thread With No Home

The U-haul has come and I should go

Where is the U-haul going?

Now the Hard Part---Building a New Marriage
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Women - 08/30/06 05:27 AM
dragonflie

First time poster/ christian/losing my mind

Who can relate to this? Separated- no mutual kids.

He called today!

Who the heck was that guy I was with for 5 years?

Should I ask him out? Cast your vote now!

New to piecing
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Women - 08/30/06 07:14 PM
gettingon

Having problems being strong

Ambushed

Must have contact with OW
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Women - 08/30/06 07:55 PM
Gibeon

New and Confused!!

Turning a Corner?

Help! He's asking for D!

Creating Positive Energy

Thinking of Giving an Ultimatum

Starting over is going to be hard

Need advice for this new stage
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Women - 08/30/06 08:58 PM
Hanging on

Separated--Need some practical advice

Anyone out there? He's here and I'm about to CAVE!!

Don't want kids to see OW--howo to express to H?

Backsliding and SO depressed and scared

Lawyer says to seek legal separation--HELP

What the &*( *! do I do about Thanksgiving?

Affair is 6 months+. Do I have any chance??

Positive Updates??--I'm back and I need support NOW!

Ready to give up!

My Success Story(!?)

Advice/hope from a survivor
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Women - 08/30/06 09:40 PM
happy1

newbie- not married but feels like it!

What if he is not talking or seeing you

Calls-but no message Why?

R-E-S-P-E-C-T says Aretha

Calls-but no message Part 2

Validation of Feelings

Calls But No Message-Part 3

Movin on UP!

Calls But No Message--Part 4
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Women - 08/31/06 04:13 PM
healedbutscarred (aka pfroglady)

infidelity

Update from March 2001

Need some advice and input

THINGS JUST KEEP GETTING BETTER

HELP...I'M BEING AN IDIOT!!
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Women - 09/01/06 11:03 PM
Goosesmother

Anxious

Help me! Please!!

Michele HELP PLEASE!!

Purge

At Long Last

Please help me! Sisterspider needs HELP!

What if...don't like changes

Wandering parties feelings

Feeling bad

Emotional swings!

Ring, ring...Tia, Tempest, Faith...

Michele...I really need your advice!!

Hurt and Pain! Michele, advice please!

I'm pregnant!

Baby arrived

(fixed links)
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Women - 09/01/06 11:13 PM
CEH

Need help staying focused!

Hooray!!!!
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Women - 09/01/06 11:35 PM
Tempest

How do I get thru this?

Cant stop thinking of the other woman

Anger starting to surface, Help!

OW called, I blew a fuse!

Want to forgive, thought I had

OW called again, but its OK!

Really bummed out today, need support.

To guilty to work on it.

Not this AGAIN!

Still alive and kicking

A matter of Trust!
Posted By: MissingMyHubby Re: Successful Women - 09/01/06 11:54 PM
O JJ
Did I miss it or you have forgotten the MLC DBing "expert" HEARTS BLESSING?
Please list her wonderful threads
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Women - 09/03/06 06:47 AM
Thanks MMH! Here you go....

Hearts Blessing (akaHurtingBadly)

Just Updating on me.

Hello all!!

The final door for me is starting to close.......

A link that will help-another success story....

I'm Having Problems and I need help......

The Six Stages of a Mid Life Crisis, by HB.

The Six Stages of a Mid Life Crisis--2nd posting

Six Stages of MLC-4th posting

I will be gone for good in about two weeks........

Home temporarily---update.

Final Chapter and Goodbye to all.......
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Women - 09/03/06 07:55 AM
jdjnjmommy

Im new here, seems pretty hopeless

OK I just need a chat, Im not sure what to think

Wanted to get excited, but I refrained

amazing how backing off works! But am I in piecing

I am excited! He says he wants the marriage!
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Women - 09/03/06 09:14 AM
Johnswife

TRYING TO STAY HOPEFUL PLEASE HELP

I don't know what to do anymore help!

Dynamics have changed and I need help here.

Betrayers and all men please tell me how a man's mind works regarding sex

GG other how do you stay focused. I need help.

HANGING TOUGH TRYING TO HOLD ONTO PMA

One Day At A Time

One Day At A Time Part II

Good News - One Day At A Time and DBing is working

Believe it or not happier than ever-DBing works

One Day at a Time Continues to Work

My H says to tell you all hi from him

Therapist says H is fixed but now we got to fix me

Johns Wife are you there?

fixed links
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Women - 09/03/06 08:21 PM
Kansha

Hangin out in limbo land

Help I lost it!

Have You heard this one?

All those w/ kids, who cohabitate with MLC spouse

HELP! Damage control needed, ASAP!

My List!!!!!

Life with crazy H and OW (Am I piecing or What?)

I'VE FOUND IT !!!!!!!!!!!

Diary of a Mad Housewife!

AlexN and Kansha want to refocus their lives, need help

I Lost It! I really didn't see it coming!!!

Thoughts on a Saturday Night!

How to STOP those debilitating thoughts.

Need Help Fast!!!!!

Qustion for Patience and anyone else who has sucessfully DB'd while living with WS.

Lost it number (oh who in the h^ll knows?) I've lost count!

I feel like Dorothy in, "The Wizard of OZ"...

Over functioners, Unite!

Boundary setting; Good discussion on setting boundaries.

Emergency!!!!!!!!!I'm getting ready to blow!!!!!!!!!

Interesting Developments

Latest Developements!?????

I want to send this e-mail to my H. Can you convince me not too? Should you?

Things are heating up!

In and Out of the Tunnel Too? Maybe?

"Did your girlfriend have a nice birthday?"

An update

Should I or Shouldn't I ?

Okay, Repeat after me(well Michele actually)

Is this on your refrigerator?????? I'll post it on mine if you'll post it on yours!

Distancing- What is it? What works?- A discussion

The LONG road home-An MLC journey

NEW DBERS!! dealing with MLC: Some things that help

Passive Agressive Versus Trying to Make the Best of a Lousy Situation.

Newbies and anyone else: Things I did to Db

Are We There Yet?

Post Retrouvaille...

All about me...

updated links
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Women - 09/04/06 04:57 AM
LoriP

Truly Miraculous - We Have Reconciled!

It May Take Time, But Hope is Always There!

updated links
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Women - 09/04/06 07:22 AM
Me2

Where and how do I start?

Backslide-like day 1 all over again

Fired the C
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Women - 09/05/06 07:48 PM
shinybear

Dazed and confused

Dazed, but not Quite as confused!

Where do we go from here??

What do you want from life?

Let's put a new coat of paint....

I Will Survive!

What do I want from life?

Getting Closer?

Getting Closer!!!

"Home Improvements"

On our Way!

Shine On!

Still Shining!

Still Kickin'

just checkin' in
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Women - 09/06/06 07:57 PM
mooka

H mid life crisis....I think?

Midlife Crisis

Taking small steps forward....that's the goal!

Seems like more steps backwards.....than forwards

Being in NEUTRAL is getting old....

No longer in neutral...piecing forward on my own

Outta Neutral...shifting into First Gear with H!!

Moving forward gradually......slowly but surely

Perseverance Pays Off!!!
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Women - 09/07/06 06:11 AM
Lululost

Where do I go from here?

If you think your story is bad read mine. HELP
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Women - 09/07/06 04:07 PM
nancy

HUSBAND IS COMING BACK!!!!
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Women - 09/07/06 09:43 PM
rj2

newly separated- miserable,confused, hope?

newly separated - lost, hurt- advice?

new separated- on the ride- hope? help.

optimism and strategy breeds success

moving with confidence to success!
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Women - 09/07/06 11:01 PM
Sarah Fuller

despair

help!

oh, and another thing

Need Advice, Feeling Hopeless

PLEASE RESPOND

Hope?

No Contact At All

NO ow and H is coming for dinner

H wants to come home--feeling scared

Yet another divorce busted!
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Women - 09/07/06 11:49 PM
Skylark

I did it, gang: Gave h an ultimatum!

Update on Skylark's ultimatum to H

H responds to ultimatum

OPTIMISTIC: Is now the time to pull back?

H finally willing to discuss possible reconciliation

OPTIMISTIC: We're thinking of you!

OPTIMISTIC (Lisa): ET, phone home!!!

Optimistic: ready when you are!
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Women - 09/08/06 04:44 AM
keepingthefaith

Help - please

Ready to tell him to move out

H comes home from OW's and wants to tell me all about it. Opinions?

Detachment - GOT IT!

Is This Marriage Saved?
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Women - 09/08/06 05:08 AM
magenta

Made the call just now to cancel D proceedings

Talking about renewing our vows but.......?

unsure if this is true DBing..but its working...
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Women - 09/10/06 06:45 PM
mimi1114

this is confusing

Here we go Again!

Climbing the stariway to ???

Strange Days

Strange Days.....con't

Re: Mimi and Rtoo, where are you? Missing you...
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Women - 09/12/06 04:03 AM
aria

What Next? Our Story

Chapter 2: Alone w/ 2 kids & a fish

Ch. 3: S L O W LY He Turns

Working On A Success Story
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Women - 11/23/06 10:17 PM
totite

H unhappy and left

Piecing with PATIENCE

The Piecing Chronicles: H is thisclose

H is home! Marriage wins!

updated links
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Women - 11/25/06 09:04 PM
TMAK2

Midlife crisis or exit affair

MLC DEPRESSION IS TORTURE

HELP! MY PMA HAS SLIPPED 2X THIS WEEK

GOD'S PLAN FOR MCL'R & LBS

ONLY READ IF TRULY COMMITTED TO SAVING MARRIAGE!

LET GO...LET GOD

DEPRESSION & RECONNECTION
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Women - 11/25/06 09:55 PM
TinaKay

NEED ADVISE QUICK

WHAT DO WE DO ABOUT CHRISTMAS/EVERYONES QUESTION!

The Babys Here and We are Fine

New Thread:The FINAL Chapter: I Think It's Over

I Still Think It's Over..Part 2..The Saga continues

The Ongoing Saga:Tina's Story

Praying For Success: Tina's Story Continues

Tina Kay----- where are you?

How to Obtain Your Success Story.........

Success Isn't Always Forever

(This last thread was just another bump in the road. Be sure to read this next one!)

HELLO TO ALL THE OLDTIMERS..WHERE ARE YOU?
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Women - 11/25/06 10:56 PM
thesane1

My story sad but true

Stuck in the grey..help!!

I want to talk about GUILT!

Baby Steps !! Then I blew it !!

Baby steps,turning into big strides, what now?

H wants to talk : But what about???

H is coming home :O)))))

I DBed my T*tts Off !! and I won.

updated links
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Women - 11/26/06 06:35 PM
Teach

Please help, husband "not in love anymore??"

Need insight from wise DBer's

Some progress (new thread)

Great things happening!

Anyone have anger/hurt AFTER reconciliation?

Hurray! I'm here!

Think I'm backsliding, HELP

What happens AFTER we are here??

Not sure if I want this anymore, sad, confused.

On our way to Ohio!!!

@%#&* That's all I can say about today!

Aloha!

Just a little update

I actually thanked H for dropping the bomb!!!

Do you believe in fate??

1 Year anniversary of the bomb

Long time no see
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Women - 11/30/06 02:31 PM
sport

am i going crazy?

THERE IS HOPE FOR ALL OF US.....READ

In and Out of the Tunnel

HE IS OUT OF THE TUNNEL!!!!!!!!!!

Home for Four Months

Merry Christmas!
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Women - 12/01/06 10:39 PM
AlexN

My martian has returned...but I don't trust him

Shakespeare was a DBer

AlexN and Kansha want to refocus their lives, need help

Hindsight of the tunnel
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Women - 12/02/06 11:52 PM
Rene1

married 5 months...
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Women - 12/03/06 04:26 PM
PunkinsMom

Calling all experts! H has one foot out the door!

H STILL has one foot out the door, but may be slowing pulling it back?

Moving Slowleeee through the Punkin Patch

Great Pumpkin returning but OW weed won't die!

OW is history and H is staying put!!
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Women - 12/06/06 06:33 PM
JeanS

Peculiar behaviour

I am Improving Every Day
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Women - 12/09/06 04:56 PM
Kellie

Success
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Women - 12/09/06 06:40 PM
Juanita

I'm New Here -Help Me Save My Marriage

I Got a Breakthrough!

I Think We're On To Something!!!

updated links
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Women - 03/21/07 08:40 PM
torresjj

He is already gone.

He is already gone (3rd thread)

SIS is back (formerly "he is already gone 1, 2, 3"
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Women - 03/25/07 09:38 AM
purplekat

Going to counselor this morning at 10:300 could REALLY use some advice here PLEASE

Just got confirmation on EA with OW - please tell me what I should do I feel terrible

Has anyone DB'ed too much/too fast & scared WAS???

H coming home Fri & Wants me to take off work to "talk" I Don't want to blow this ...

I need some really good advice here - don't want to blow all my hard work on saving M

Having a hard time keeping the resentment/hurt from coming out - really need advice

need help with not letting resentment/fears ruin DBing ... HELP!!!!

seeking advice from those that are dealing with aftermath of spouse's PA
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Women - 03/26/07 09:36 AM
mockers2

New here

Newbee with some questions

On the MLC rollercoaster too

Very cautiously optimistic

Letting the shoreline go

Forgetting those things which are behind......
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Women - 03/26/07 10:04 AM
monte

HELP!!! I need some advice....

DESPERATE>>>PLS READ

A bright future for J, D, baby and hopefully H
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Women - 03/29/07 06:11 PM
tielbeagle

is he confused or what?

There may be hope for us after all

says he wants to work on marriage

he seems distant again

I thought we were on the road to piecing it back together, but

the worst time of my life

is he coming around?

am I just wasting my time?

what about playing a lttle hard to get?

he asked me to come home (again)

what the heck is he thinking NOW???

moving out temporarily to give H space worked for me

I suppose he's trying

how do I answer this question

H suggested trip, just us out of town

he keeps putting me in my place

about "not telling them we love them"

Do they just snap out of it suddenly?

bomb dropped 2/21-DB'ing 6 months now, possible success story? :an update, sorry long

bomb dropped 2/21-DB'ing 6 months now, possible success story? :an update, sorry long-2

H distant again, part of piecing it back together?

H distant again, is this part of the game?

is it real or is H just going through the motions?

Romantic weekend went very well

H says he doesn't want D anymore, but still in MLC

are u going out of your way to show them the love?

do I allow myself to hope what this might mean?

please, need help in a hurry before he gets back

been a year now...I think we're gonna make it

I/we keep backsliding, was going so well before

I/we keep backsliding, was going so well before-2

H no longer wants D, but says M not his focus

H no longer wants D, but says M not his focus-2

remember me?

feel like bomb dropped again
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Women - 04/01/07 09:21 PM
Loretta

MLC

sex everyday again

After Affair-home7months-OWstill hanging on

Creating Memories......

When will she disappear......
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Women - 04/16/07 10:37 PM
Kelli

Now I know I'm not alone

Kell's story, part 2 - Waiting in Limbo

Kelli's Permanent Home is in Limbo

Kelli - Around the Corner or Around the Bend

Kelli Continued

Kelli - Waiting for a Decision

Kelli - Does He Love Me, Yes or No?

Kelli - Still Lacking Confidence

Kelli - Am I Ready for Piecing?

Moving Forward
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Women - 04/17/07 05:22 AM
KutieKat

Living in Limbo Land

My Great Secret Dream (My 2nd Thread)

Lightening Up My Heart

It Will Be Worth the Adjustment

Altering My Life by Altering My Attitude of Mind

Imagine What You Want To Do ...

Eat That Frog

Just Aim Cleverly

Things Are Different Now

Making Me (and my FRIENDS) Smile
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Women - 04/17/07 05:47 AM
Juliet

New SBT Member: Need Positive Vibes!

How do I stay positive when all seems lost

Need Advice: Big Meet w H tonite to talk!!! Very scared!

Latest Update on Juliet's DBing

Latest Update: Juliet's DBing(2)

Update: Latest on Juliet's DBing(3)

The latest in Juliet's DBing(4)

Latest on Juliet's DBing(5)

Latest on Juliet's DBing(6)

Latest on Juliet's DBing(6)

Latest on Juliet's DBing(7)
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Women - 04/17/07 10:52 AM
Wendylon

No more OW (supposedly) but H pessimistic about us

OW in the picture and H pessimistic about us

OW in and out of the picture and I'm fed up

Unilateral disarmement

Unilateral Disarmement-2

Unilateral Disarmement - 3
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Women - 04/20/07 01:18 AM
rottzilla

Husband emotionally abandoned me -HELP!

Did I do the right thing?

Things That Are Working

Self Fulfilling Prophecy-I'm ready!!!

Listening with my eyes, detaching with my heart

a new chapter in my book to force the change

Divorce busted, Crisis over, love waiting in wings

Former DBer and H need your help

Rottzilla and Rottzuki post again!
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Women - 05/01/07 10:58 PM
Phoenix68

New and I'm all shook up!

How sweet it is!!!!!

A Success Story!
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Women - 05/03/07 08:29 AM
alanah

This is a LOOOONG journey...

Joy on the Journey

Joy on the Journey -2

Joy on the Journey-3

Joy on the Journey-4
Posted By: nothing Re: Successful Women - 05/03/07 02:45 PM
So many great things to read

Any off the top to be points to read (My situtation - marriage is (ok was) great but H unhappy - say unhappy for years and hid/lied about it, moved out, hardly sees/talks to his children now nor myself) Anythese type of topics resemble this that I should read first
Posted By: nara Re: Successful Women - 05/29/07 10:57 PM
It's so wonderful to see women overcoming their trials. I hope I can be one of them someday, as I am still trying to make sense of my own sitch while trying to help others, too.

Kudos!
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Women - 06/09/07 05:42 PM
marjada

need support

just need to talk
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Women - 06/09/07 06:04 PM
JLeigh

My First Time Posting!

Need Some Help!

Just when you thought things might be looking up....WHAM!!

The measure of love is when you love w/o measure!!

Possible Success Story...: )

The only failure is the one who doesn't try!!

For every door that closes, one more opens.
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Women - 10/14/07 06:08 AM
manifesto

Hi all - new here - not alone I see...

DBing WORKS AGAIN!!!! DON'T GIVE UP!!!!

Busted my 'D'
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Women - 12/03/07 10:05 AM
Lost_In_Love

Sorting through the pain

Need Help - H is on a date with OW right now!

Still Lost

Anyone want to give me some pointers???

Still Lost #2

Not So Lost Anymore
Posted By: IAChild Re: Successful Women - 12/03/07 06:32 PM
Wow! I'm flattered that I made onto the Successful Women thread! Yay me! (Btw, it's also a very helpful place where I can find all of my old links...thanks!)
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Women - 12/29/07 04:37 PM
hangingon4

IS it MLC? Anyone?

Well I said too much?

H wants to be in labor room

My personal LRT

H says I am pushing him away? advice?

Statistically speaking - poll

Wow! Strange happenings!

Divorce Busted!!
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Women - 12/29/07 07:43 PM
LzrdQueen74

Hate Coming Home....
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Women - 02/17/08 07:22 PM
S.T. _I Made It!

just need some help..

Need Advice... affair supposedly ended, but wait..

Still Tryin's new thread

Still Tryin's new thread 2

Still Tryin's 2nd piecing
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Women - 03/08/08 11:07 PM
liz7

desperate for help and advice

desperate for help and advice (new thread)

desperate for help and advice (liz7)

Still need help and advice (liz7)

Help and advice (liz7)

Missed you all

need help piecing
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Women - 03/09/08 12:42 AM
Torchbearer

Out of the Blue

Where Do I Go From Here?

Pieces are Coming Together
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Women - 04/12/08 07:49 PM
inawe2004

trying to figure things out

feeling lost

OW is trying to antagonize me!!!

A new year for inawe

trying to piece
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Women - 05/25/08 04:58 PM
outabreath

Can't get my mind together
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Women - 05/31/08 04:52 PM
fandgmom

Please Help! I feel like nothing is working!!

MLC - Is this really what is going on?

What is this? Can someone decipher at all?

In REPLAY stage but showing interest in kids?

How many times do I have to hear this?? Vent.

Any other MLCers get really angry when...

PLEASE! Can someone help me??

A New Month - wonder what's in store ;\)

Detaching and becoming numb

I Was a Bad Girl - July 13 '06

In Over My Head - Trying to be Strong & Patient

Gosh this is hard - H coming back

Gosh this is hard - H coming back 2

Gosh this is hard - H coming back 3

Do you remember me? Update \:\)

Some Advice Needed Please \:\)

BND - When do you trust again?

Still dealing with my OWN issues.
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Women - 06/01/08 07:01 PM
SRACHELLE4

I need help does this seem like signs to you?

I get so confused need help from others

My MLC'er Surprised me what does it mean?

I need help fast!! I am meeting him at 12:00

don't give up even when it seems impossible!!!
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Women - 06/07/08 05:00 PM
NeedingLove

I believe my husband has full-blown MLC

Help: How Long Does Mid-Life Last

Help! How Long Does MLC Last #2
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Women - 06/07/08 05:31 PM
saranne

Advice please...

Losing the fight

Not losing the fight now...!

Why do I still feel so insecure?

How can I get something done without nagging????

Baby Steps in leaps and bounds

Looks like my H is coming out of his tunnel...
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Women - 06/07/08 06:03 PM
cmd

Loveless and Distant

Not clear on how to DB with MLC

Suggestions regarding the MLC cheeseless tunnels

Help, that deadly silence effects our kids

Need advice

Some hope for anyone that may need it
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Women - 09/01/08 06:24 PM
mchris1024

New Here

MCHRIS's new thread

Spent the night with WAH New Thread New Beginning

Baby Steps
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Women - 01/04/09 09:15 PM
trytoohard

Very Weird! Not sure how to deal...

D18 is sabatoging DB'ing!!!!!

OUCH!

Crazy Train!

Nailing Jell-o to a tree

To contact or not contact? That is the question...

The miracle of DB'ing

Off the crazy train?

Karma's a B*tch!

H is Home After 2 1/2 years!
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Women - 01/04/09 09:37 PM
Lotty, from the MLC forum...

Need Support and Advice - EA revealed

Is it me?
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Women - 01/05/09 12:08 AM
abbe

kindness begets kindness

KINDNESS BEGETS KINDNESS IT WORKED!!!!!!!!!!!!!

kindness begets kindness .. it worked!!
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Women - 04/04/09 03:41 PM
Dauphine

should he move out?

how to tell kids dad is leaving?

Melting the Iceman

Tough love and MLC - incompatible?

Man in MLC needs a strong woman

I think it's time to set boundaries - any advice?

help! I think H is packing his bags right now!!!

climbing uphill for the great view
Posted By: Laurie Re: Successful Women - 04/10/09 01:33 AM
I just have to say hi to Jamesjohn! So good to see you friend! That's all. Please take care.
Posted By: sgctxok Re: Successful Women - 04/10/09 01:56 AM
Hi JJ!
Posted By: Breakdown Re: Successful Women - 08/13/12 03:00 PM
The links on "slowly (piecing with style)" don't seem to be working.
Posted By: Cadet Re: Successful Women - 08/18/12 04:08 PM
Originally Posted By: Breakdown
The links on "slowly (piecing with style)" don't seem to be working.

The OLDER links on the board do not work as many of these threads are now purged because of space.

I dont totally understand how they decide what to keep and what to purge but it has happened here a few times.

Use the more recent ones, unless someone comes up with another idea.

Here is one idea,
this is some links for her threads you should be able to find others with the show posts function.
Do you know how to use that?

the journey is the reward
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...3130#Post263130

A Liberal Allowance of Time
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...571#Post1133571

Hmm what I wrote above may be wrong as I see her threads have not been purged.

Just the links are bad.

That would be a big project to restore them,
I will have to think about that.
Posted By: Michele Weiner-Davis Re: Successful Women - 12/27/12 01:09 AM
This topic is being locked due to length. The forums runs more smoothly when threads are not so long.

Please begin a new thread if you would like to continue the discussion.
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