Is your spouse ready to give up on your marriage?  

Have you heard the words, “I love you but I’m not in love with you,” or “We’ve just grown apart,” or “I’m not attracted to you anymore,” or “I never loved you in the first place”?

If so, no wonder you are devastated.  You’re losing sleep at night because your dreams for the future seem to be slipping through your fingers. You don’t know what to do or where to turn.   You keep thinking, “It’s simply not fair. It takes two people to get married, but only one to end it.” 

Take a deep breath.

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Here’s the good news. 

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You can save your marriage even if your spouse wants out! You can improve your marriage single-handedly.

If you have been feeling discouraged, hear this- whatever your marriage problems, regardless of how long things have been rocky, no matter how hopeless you or your spouse feel, you can bring your marriage back from the brink of divorce.

 
It’s not too late!

That’s where I come in. I know what you’re going through and more importantly, I know how to help you save your marriage.
 

The Last Resort Technique

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The Last Resort Technique is exactly what it says it is. You use it as a last resort; you put it to use when your situation is extreme. 

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What do I mean by extreme?

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It’s imperative that you begin doing the Last Resort Technique immediately if:

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• If your spouse has said to you in no uncertain terms that s/he wants to get a divorce and it appears as if s/he really means it.  It wasn’t just said in the heat of battle.

• You and your spouse are separated physically.

• You and your spouse still live together but have very little to do with each other.  You may be sleeping in separate rooms, have virtually no communication, and little or no sexual contact.

• Your spouse has filed for divorce

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Although it’s true that many marriages do end in divorce, just because your marriage is really fragile right now doesn’t mean you have to become a statistic.  There are many people who beat the odds.  

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 Don’t feel hopeless. 

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 I will give you specific instructions about what you should do to try to get things back on track.  Although the Last Resort Technique doesn’t always work, it works often enough for you to be eager to give it a shot.

   

 I have worked with many clients and have received many letters, phone calls and e-mails from people whose relationships were on their marital deathbeds but were successful at turning things around by using the Last Resort Technique.   

Typically, when marriage nears its end, only one spouse is in favor of divorce while the other desperately wants to stay together. 

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The spouse eager to hold the marriage together often engages in behavior that pushes the other partner further away.  S/he pursues, reasons, chases, begs, pleads, and implores.

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There may be lots of phone calls, letters, heartfelt pleas for sympathy, even suicide threats. It doesn't take long before the departing spouse gets fed up with the pressure and insists the marriage is over, prompting the other spouse to chase even more.

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The effects of this chasing behavior is deadly to a marriage. 

 

THE LAST RESORT TECHNIQUE IS DESIGNED TO HELP THE ONE PERSON IN THE RELATIONSHIP WHO DESPERATELY WANTS TO STAY TOGETHER.  

 

IT IS A PROGRAM TO BE USED BY ONE PERSON ONLY

 

IT'S DESIGNED TO HELP WHEN ALL ELSE FAILS.

 

THE LAST RESORT TECHNIQUE - A DIVORCE BUSTING® GUIDE

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