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The proceeding 7 simple steps to saving your marriage are pulled directly from my book, “ The Divorce Remedy .” I’ve summarized the points to help get the wheels turning in your efforts to save your marriage. Step#1- Start with a Beginner’s Mind Buddhists believe that people should approach their lives with a beginner’s mind because in a beginner’s mind there are many possibilities, in an expert’s mind, there are but a few. To be a creative problem-solver, it is essential th

Clue #5: Note what’s different about the times that something constructive comes from “the problem”. Samantha was angry at her boyfriend all the time. She would even wake up in the middle of the night with her teeth clenched after dreaming about something he had done. She felt that these intense feelings of rage were harming her health, not to mention her relationship. Her boyfriend was losing patience with her. In addition to asking her the usual exception question – “What’s

The tips you’re about to read pertain to conflict-ridden conversations. I don’t think you need assistance making superficial talk or with discussions that are void of emotional content. Those are no brainers. Emotion-packed conversations are where we get in trouble. They bring out the worst in everyone. In keeping with the “ it takes one to tango ” spirit, when you change your steps in the dance of conflict between you and your guy, he’ll respond more sanely and your hea