I assume if she wants to show me, have me touch them or tries to do other things I should just ignore her the best I can?
You are divorced right? What would you do if a girl you knew got some and said she wanted you to see or touch them, why deny yourself the pleasure. Just have fun with it. Its ok to have feelings still, just dont read much into it. Unless you dont think you can handle it. I always looked at it like someone bought a new car and they say lets take it for a spin. Just enjoy the moment.
In my opinion since you two are divorced, all the pressure is off of her now about MR. So if you can handle it , it is ok to flirt with her. I just wouldnt stop dating other people. unlike breaking up with a GF who you dont have to see anymore, you have to be cordial to her since you have kids, but doesnt mean you have to be in her friendzone. Dont offer any help and tell her no more times than you tell her yes.
Rexgm
M:43 W:33 M:10 T:11 D:6 BD 8/12/17 Divorce Final 1/23/2019
All very interesting stuff. I'd have to fall in the "not a fan" camp. Just not into man-made boobies. Does make me think though, that's at least one thing my, searching for her happiness, wife did NOT do - and she well could/should have as she was and somewhat still is a beautiful blonde with no boobs. Wonder if she ever thought of it? But I digress.
My question is, who is taking care of your ex-W post surgery? The new BF? It can be a bit of a recovery - depending on the method used (over or under the muscle, etc.). If she is prone to asking you for assistance, I'd suggest you get ready for that before she asks you to view or try them out. That's going to be a little bit down the road yet. She may at the least ask you to take the kids more, etc., for the next week or two.
Good luck on your first OLD (on-line date). I'm looking forward to hearing how it goes as I've done far better off-line, and like others here, have not had much success OLD. Hopefully you'll show us how it's done!
DonH Midwest Me 56 WAW-EXW 55 Met 11/95 / Married 5/00 Bomb 6/20/05 / She Filed on 6/2/06 / Divorced on 10/9/06 4 who'd qualify as GF since D & dated about 25 women since D
Hey don.....she is staying with a good friend of ours sun and mon night. It is my week to have the girls but as of right now I will have them sun and mon night as they told her the recovery was 24 hrs but we shall see. Interesting she told me what she was doing and our family friend told me she was nervous to let me know.
Setting up the date tonight....I will keep you all posted
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I should not chime in here as I am a woman and this is definitely locker room talk.
You know, there might be some female DBers who have fake tatas hint hint. Some of us also didnt get them due to MLC. But we arent talking about those people, and J9, your W might be. Or, its not necessarily a MLC, just something a woman wants to change about herself when things starts to literally go south.
Anyways, I see the men are giving you the flirting advice with the new titties. I wholeheartedly disagree.
But I am a woman, and I could see where that is going to lead. To her thinking she has control over you with her new boobies. I can tell you the cascade of events that could come with that
Still, a woman thing. New boobies arent a big deal. She had to tell you, because come on, when she shows up with her new boobs, you are going to be sure to notice and the convo will come up somehow.
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