I think Joejoe gave me a revelation. You know what? I am still DBing her come to think of it. Mainly because I don't see her as throwing herself at me but at this point I guess it's hard to dispute. It's just that she is always sure to say things that reference us as two people who failed at a romantic relationship and are friends now. Sure I don't expect a woman to lead me to make a move...but I also don't expect her to lead me not to either. And I get a dose of both from her which confuses me. It's also the reason I think people have such polar opposite views on how I should handle this. She sends mixed signals constantly. But yes, you are right. I am still DBing her out of habit I guess. This site and the book were my lifeline for so long during that awful time in 2014 that I feel secure DBing I guess. I perceive it like a protection for me that keeps me strong because I wouldn't be where I am today without this site and my book.
ME: 43 W:44 M 13 years on 5-5-01 T 18 years BD 4/27/14 D papers served 5/5/14 (how appropriate a date) WAW moved out 5/12/14 Papers filed 6/27/14 Divorce granted 07/17/14 Our marriage ends 11/17/14
ME: 43 W:44 M 13 years on 5-5-01 T 18 years BD 4/27/14 D papers served 5/5/14 (how appropriate a date) WAW moved out 5/12/14 Papers filed 6/27/14 Divorce granted 07/17/14 Our marriage ends 11/17/14
Well Steve my WAW is a perpetually confusing one. She was always up front and forward when it came to sex so I would think she would have made it more obvious if that was her intent. But maybe not...that's the problem here, it's all speculation. She could be waiting for me to make a move, or not. That's the issue here and that's why people here seem to be on one side or the other in terms of advice. For now I need to reply to this meme with something. I have to come up with something awesome.
This is not my arena as dirty text pictures are a little outside my comfort zone, but I would be tempted, in your shoes to find a picture of a cake with vaginas on top. LOL
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
