I know exactly what you are saying about the supermarkets. It's just like when the word "snow" is mentioned in the forecast...everyone runs to the store for milk, bread, snacks and toilet paper. It's just a bit crazy how a store will be shut for one day and they have this "need" to stock up on all sorts of things. LOL!
As for your h, sounds like he's a bit lonely and I'm glad your son agreed to allow him to come visit for a couple of days. You will do just fine because you now know what you are dealing with, i.e., no expectations. I hope everything goes well and you aren't too tense when he's around.
Merry Christmas to you and your family. I will be thinking of you and praying that all goes well.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
