It might just be me, but it seems you need to set some boundaries and stick to them. Don't let him take you to the airport, don't let him hug you, don't let him kiss you on the cheek. Just my $ .02
M:23 T:26 Me:53, Wife: 60 S:18 D:16 filed 7/16 W moved out 4/28/17
Hi - If he were to come home - I don't know how things would be different, surely we would need to actually sit down and talk about the issues we have with each other and look at ways to improve.
I know I need to set boundaries, but its hard when I want those hugs too - I am facing the very real reality that one of them may be the last hugs I get.
I don't think he fears of losing me, i don't think he cares if he loses me - his new exciting life of clubbing and partying and staying out without any cares seems to tip the scale away from marriage. I got one last text from him just moments after I sent my last post and b4 leaving Miami - he said, he still loves me.....
I have not contacted him since being back in the UK today - he did ask that i message him to let him know i got here ok, but I know i will want more than a one line response and it hurts when i don't get one. I know I can't control him, his feelings all i can do is try and be OK.
Its been awkward in the house - his mum and dad are here - they gave me such big hugs when i got home. No-one has spoken about it or asked anything yet - I haven't broken down yet...... Maybe this time apart will be what I need to figure out what lies ahead.
