On the long and lonely road - trying to own it

[LH19]

[quote=2016sux] If my WH has made these choices because he is damaged and weak, do I not have a duty as someone who pledged themselves as a life partner to help him?

Anchor,

The thing is that as of now he has not asked for your help. I think it is ok to leave the door open to reconciliation as long as you keep moving forward. He has to do the heavy lifting on his own and he will have to hit rock bottom first.

[Anchor]

Thanks LH. You're very right that he hasn't asked for my help. I haven't offered it - stopped that a few months after BD.

Am trying very hard to keep GAL. Every spare evening I have without DS4 is accounted for for the next week.

Time for a new thread...

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