Infidelity/WAH, my story pt 9

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So sorry for you!
You are absolutely right to place boundaries not only for your own physical health but also your mental health. If you don't address them he might feel that he has the upper hand in your relationship and can do as he wants.

Chatting with a single female is definitely crossing the line, not only he knows that's inappropriate in regard of his past actions and conversations you had, but also he did it while under the marital roof. That's an evident lack of respect for your relationship and it shows sadly that he is not at all in piecing.

You are so courageous, it's so tough to have those conversations when you know they can be a deal breaker but they have to be done to show that we changed and we no longer accept or close our eyes on some behavior.