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(((Phoebe))) I'm sorry it's hard. It makes sense that it would be. It's only been a year and this is the time when he left. I think by next Christmas it will get better, and the positive memories you have been making will start replacing the negative ones.

Wishing you more peace and love this holiday season!

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The first anniversary of anything is always the most triggering in my view.

Not saying its downhill but space and time are very helpful.

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How are you doing my dear Phoebe?

(((((Phoebe)))))


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BD Feb 2016
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D final 6/1/2017

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Phoebe,

I hope you are doing better than last time you posted. It's a difficult season when you're grieving and experiencing great transition, but the new year can bring hope and the feeling of a clean slate. I hope that is the case for you!

Let's hear how you're doing!

((((((((Phoebe))))))))


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EA 11/13, BD1 6/14
PA fall 14, BD2 2/15
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Phoebe,

I have been reading Blu's threads from the beginning. It's taking me forever because I only have time to read a handful at a time, but I almost feel like I know all of you at this point. I've been reading all of your posts in Blu's threads and I started wondering/worrying about what happened to you (and others). I look at the dates of the posts to see how much time has passed since it was written and I wonder where everyone is at now.

I saw your last post on the boards on the previous page of this thread and it made me sad. My guess is a lot of us had a sad Christmas.

Anyways, just wanted to pop in and see how you're doing and let you know people are thinking about you, even the ones you don't know.

(((((Phoebe)))))


M-32 W-32 (both military)
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PA Oct/Nov 16 (happened twice)
Discovered PA 11/30/16
S 12/1/16
MC 12/1/16 - 1/18/17
BD 1/18/17
A continues? 1/24/17 texts resume with W & OM
W Filed 3/8/17
W Deploys 7/17
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