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NYGal,

Yes, there will be situations where you are going to be triggered and this is one of them. Ugh! frown

W, along with several others, received an invitation to participate in an interview for the position ow is applying for.

How did this come about? How did you learn of this? In what way did you find out?


Why can't she see this? She skips plenty of other interviews, why is she asking my permission to attend?

Did she actually ASK you for permission to attend? Or is that an assumption on your part?

We need more information before we can assist you in navigating this new scenario.


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Sweetie?? How are you doing?

Please do drop by when you get the chance. smile

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She showed me the email from the CFO -- it went out to about a dozen or more people. She said she isn't going to go! But then she said she should tell the CFO why -- conflict of interest. I thought, jeez, does everyone have to know they had an affair????


11/4/15 W revealed EA/2 months later became PA with co-worker
Reconciling since late April 2016
Don't give up until it's time, then move on
Be patient, strong and kind but never a doormat
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She decided not to go and now you're questioning it? You really need to stop trying to control how she does things. She's turning it down. You should be happy about that.


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I am.


11/4/15 W revealed EA/2 months later became PA with co-worker
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Be patient, strong and kind but never a doormat
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11/4/15 W revealed EA/2 months later became PA with co-worker
Reconciling since late April 2016
Don't give up until it's time, then move on
Be patient, strong and kind but never a doormat
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