That plan is a hot mess. Kids never gonna know what's going on and very difficult for parents to plan. Why not just a three day with dad, then three day with mom.. Easy 50/50, weekends rotate, child gets fair time with both parents through out a few months.
Ralph88 Me 40s W 30s, D5 D3 , M7 T9 2013 B drop 1, EA found 2016 B drop 2, EA/PA? 2/16 Physical Seperation 2/16 I filed for D 4/16 PA Confirmed
Yes Sadhub the 2-2-3 is as you say and works well for parents who live close to each other and have younger kids who may suffer from separation anxiety if separated from either parent for too long.
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Im stronger because I had to be Im smarter because of my mistakes happier because of the sadness Ive known and now wiser because I learned
Ralph, I imagine that different plans work for different folks.
That plan has been perfect for my d5. She knows exactly what is going on, planning as a parent is quite simple and minimizing the time away from either parent has maintained stability. No hot mess here after over 1 month.
Rotating weekends with 3 days with one parent turns it into almost a week away. Many of the LBH on this forum seem to struggle with their children away for so many days at a time. I imagine it depends on how much time parents want between having their kids with them. Heck, this was the only thing WAW and I could agree on the first time.
All this IMHO, but to each their own.
Me 46 Former W 46 D19 D7 BD Feb 2016 WAW moves out 4/16/16 D final 6/1/2017
It's time for me to start changin' the way I look at the world......and at myself. ~James Howlett aka Wolverine
Yes Sadhub the 2-2-3 is as you say and works well for parents who live close to each other and have younger kids who may suffer from separation anxiety if separated from either parent for too long.
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Agreed.
Me 46 Former W 46 D19 D7 BD Feb 2016 WAW moves out 4/16/16 D final 6/1/2017
It's time for me to start changin' the way I look at the world......and at myself. ~James Howlett aka Wolverine
I can't even comprehend what i'm going to do when my day comes. I've spoken about 5/2, as WW should be around corner and i'd see our S every evening before putting him to bed, even if just an hour each week day.
I like the idea of having the freedom when i get home to do what i want and then still be able to see our S daily.
For now I don't want to think about that day coming though, still have a long way to go.
Just cos things are going right, doesn't mean that they were always wrong.
I just want to let you know that I've been keeping my word and praying for you.
M:50 W:53 MR:20 D:21 S:17 S:11 BD-Sept 2015 Suspected PA Sept 2015-Confronted W & OM Dec 2015 Actually EA In house Sep:Jan/16-May 2016 W moved out:May 22 2016 OM-Intro Oct/17-On scene July/Aug 2017
