When the goal is positivity

[broke]

Julie,

I am very hopeful that there is no affair in your situation. I think it is positive that he mentioned reconciliation. Sounds like you just have to be patient and continue to db until he's ready to talk about it? I only wish my WAH would be willing to try reconciliation. It is worth waiting for and db'ing if you think he is still interested in reconciling eventually. He probably needs to see that you are serious because you made him feel threatened by the steps you felt you had to take to protect yourself and your kids. Completely rational thing to do but he still took it as an attack. I am new here and making tons of mistakes, but I think just GAL'ing and continuing to DB until he says more is the route I would take. I know it is easier said than done because being in limbo stinks. But, it may be worth the wait. Keep us posted....