The more sources of advice, the varied it will become, and the more confused you will be. Since when does every book, counselor, or board members agree? Everyone can't be right if they are saying different things. Narrow it down to as few as you can. Go with what you trust and leave the rest of it alone. You are not obligated to do what anyone tells you. Just b/c it is "advice" does not mean it is the right advice to take.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
