Keep working the DB principles, keep taking care of yourself and letting your H do his own thing. Develop a practice of mindfulness and a practice of letting go and your whole situation will change. PP
PP - Thank you. Everything you said was so very helpful, but the above? Golden. I'm copying that down right now. I'm having a rough time, obviously - and this what just what I needed at this moment.
Morning Judy,
PP has summed it beautifully, as he does with his gentle kind manner.
I saw your post on my thread I will answer you there for sure. it's just that is Monday 4am in the morning here and I should be sleeping, but something woke me up to read the boards. So here I am
As PP referred to the WHY. It's kicking you ar*e at the moment. The cyclical, ruminating thinking of the WHY, will do you in. When I got off the WHY train, my life, mood and sitch started to improve. Your WHY makes you put your focus into H direction and that is just like taking another hit of your drug of choice. Your body is telling you, it's time to detox. We will talk more I promise. On my thread or yours.
Thanks PP for letting us take this time on your thread.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
