Will do. I now have to get a new bank account sorted in order to sort out a flat for myself. There doesn't appear to be a shortage of two beds in my price range, so, I just need to get practicals sorted this week and I'm good to go.
I've been thinking about rebellion. My W actually seems to be enjoying the hurt she's inflicting. I find the whole thing quite baffling. I have decided that I'm not going to help her do anything for the move. That seems harsh, but how is she to learn what a $hitstorm is coming her way unless she does everything herself? Do feel free to aim advice/criticism my way if you feel this approach is wrong. I'll clarify that I will do things for my children.
M 45 W 52 SD22 S9 D8 BD 6 April 2015 Not living together 4 Dec 2015
Not a vet and I'm off the DB diet but I can say that I agree. My WW has done nothing in this process and it's all been down to me. The rebellion bit is quite true. I believe there is a lot of that going on and my WW has IMO done everything in her power to burn every bridge between her and I. So I see what you are saying.
Sort it for you and the kids. One other thing I wanted to mention is that when I retained a L is was only �300. I don't have the final bill yet but was expecting to use the money from the house sale or, as I said before from the WW's pension. Not sure if that helps or not.
Me:43 Her:42 M:14 S:9 EA started 2014/03 (or there abouts) PA started 2014/05/30 BD:2014/11/05 I left 2015/10/01 I returned 2015/05/02 She left 2015/06/10 OM still on the go.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
