Yeah - it's weird - she was super involved in the school before the BD and now she's dropped of the face of the earth. She says she does not have time. I don't get it.
Oh well. I will carry on. Last night I had to buy a sewing kit to set on badges onto uniforms. Can't keep taking them to the tailor - too expensive!
Yup ..... Wonka as usual is on it. And those eyes ... I know them so well, those lifeless shark like eyes. Its like a shell of the person you know being controlled by some alien being.
My W did the same with activities ... this is the selfish phase. W refused to pay for any of S's baseball fees, gear, would not even do the 'team snacks' that everyone takes on one week out of the season. You just have to let them be, do those thigns with your kids, we can not control what they will or will not be a part of.
This being said ... W only missed maybe 2 games (OM dates I suspect) as she would spin and spew on those nights she missed as I had to point out ... her choice, not mine.
Live your life .. be happy. Let her spin, spew, hit rock bottom and figure her own chit out ... all these things you can not do for her, you have to allow her to go on her journey because right now .. in her fogged up noggin .. you are the obstacle in between her and happiness... is it the truth... no .. one day you just hope she realizes it, that's when she will start to do the work.
