Journaling: W called as she was driving kids to school. Other than a few texts, I haven't spoken with W since diner in Tuesday. We joked about how they were running late because D4 wanted Chik-Fil-A for breakfast. I told W that I was looking forward to seeing the kids tonight and that I missed them the last few days. We chatted a little bit more about non essentials. Then W told me that she is applying for a day position at the hospital. I validated and supported this and wished her good luck. W then told me that they (her and the kids) loved me. We then both wished each other good days.
I was upbeat, friendly, and engaged. Onward and upward...
Me:35 W:30 D:4 S:1 Bomb: 01/08/15, discovered EA & PA In House Separation: 01/14/15 W moves out: 04/05/15 I tell OM's W about A: 04/15/15 W serves D papers: 06/19/15 Mediation: 09/16/15 D final: 12/01/15
That does sound positive, and you should find hope (but without expectations) in that. Just be careful, try to take out the high highs and the low lows. Grace under pressure!
Me: 32 W: 29 T:8 M: 6 D4 S2 M - 8/2008 W is not happy - 1/2014 W wants D - 9/2014 W moved out - 11/2014 D filed - 1/23/2015 D'ed - 2/25/2015 Gave X the Letter - 11/10/2015
Thanks for the encouragement, gang. I'm not reading anything into it though, especially the "love you" part. W said she "loved me" a few minutes after she asked when I wanted to get served D papers too! But I am thankful these phone calls are at least pleasant, for my own sanity's sake.
Me:35 W:30 D:4 S:1 Bomb: 01/08/15, discovered EA & PA In House Separation: 01/14/15 W moves out: 04/05/15 I tell OM's W about A: 04/15/15 W serves D papers: 06/19/15 Mediation: 09/16/15 D final: 12/01/15
Me:35 W:30 D:4 S:1 Bomb: 01/08/15, discovered EA & PA In House Separation: 01/14/15 W moves out: 04/05/15 I tell OM's W about A: 04/15/15 W serves D papers: 06/19/15 Mediation: 09/16/15 D final: 12/01/15
