Going to be talking with the attorney today. Found one I really like and then it's hands off and let them handle it. She never got back to me about releasing her lawyer and having the two of us try and work things out, which means she would want me to go 1:1 with her lawyer unrepresented - won't do that.
I think this weekend, I'm going to review our existing bills and break down who should pay what. I have separate checking/savings accounts, we have a joint account and she has separate. So it should be easy to divide. This possible convo would ONLY be while we are living in the same house, not to determine anything else.
As far as divorce proceedings, again, I don't want one. So having the attorney drag it out seems like the best move. What about the house though? We're selling it if we get divorced and she said she's living in it until it's sold. Housing market is tough enough. Should I drag out putting it on the market too?
M-33 W-33 S-11, S-8 M-11, T-14 BD - 12/26, Divorce Filing and admits to affair (her) 4/18 I moved out 5/23
