Just checking in on you my friend. I hope you are doing okay, and are working through things in your mind. It takes a little while when something like this happens...
You know we're here when you need us anyway. Do you have some nice plans for the Easter weekend?
(((Gan)))
T 13 M 7 Me 48 H 46 SS 15 BD 7.14 PA D final 5.16 (H filed)
We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus
To me it feels like he's expecting you to be plan b. Then I cannot say what his plan a is.
Most of us have said he had a plan of some sort at bd. mine had his a. The fact he wants none of his needs met by you but needs a better r. Suggests he wants you to hang round till he says, only you can decide what your prepared to put up with.
I was for a bit but now, who can be bothered, when h isn't working on anything but ow!
M 46 h54 Both married before T 11y Bd 2/14 I must see where ow leads! Ms 18 hs 26
It's hard gan, cause wihtout him wanting to be there how long are you prepared to wait it out?
I waited my year, it was like we shall see where it washes up in a year. H had posted christmas selfies on ow fb page for his birthday. Amoungst other things, and I can help feeling each time a gossip rings or rasies h it's running back to him directly.
The waiting on my side was only half hearted, if I had met someone I would have gone out and not held back.
My ic said there is no way to have any relationship with someone who doesn't want it, so unless you allow cake eating and carry his side?
I'm not sure there is anything you can do?
M 46 h54 Both married before T 11y Bd 2/14 I must see where ow leads! Ms 18 hs 26
