I often think - whatever would our S's make of it if they knew our simple email had been redrafted 5 times with input from friends all over the world!
I'm sure they'd think we were manipulative and devious and they were right to leave.
Hey OD - I think of this too. I carefully guard this secret. It's really the only thing that I hide from W.
I've never put so much thought into every single word that I say (and I do worry that she'll find out that the words are not always my own - but the intention is). The help and care here is invaluable.
Take Care OD!
Me-45 W-44 S21, S18, D15 T-27, M-21 BD Jan 2014 PA revealed March 2014 In-house separation - April 2015 I filed - Aug 2015 She moved out Oct 2015
OD, I see this very differently 1. Shows we want clarity and care how we say what we say 2. Shows meaning before emotion 3. Removes negativity and bias on our part and creates trust 4. Communications move in a positive manner: win/win 5. We learn from this in all communications not just this one with W, practice 6. It is more loving and moves to the norm
Besides those friends have the best interests of Mr and Mrs OD at their core V
Last edited by Vanilla; 03/06/1502:21 PM.
Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW
