He wants a divorce. Very firm. Apologizes that it's not what I want and will be upsetting to me but he "doesn't have it in him to work on the marriage because he's done and doesn't want it." He can't see how it could be fixed. And why would he, he doesn't want it.
Can't give me a reason why he was miserable. Can't give me a reason why he wants a divorce other than "he doesn't have it in him."
Apparently coming home every day to me was such a struggle for him and he was so unhappy. He's at rock bottom and depressed, but happier in that state than he was with me.
He is however, going to work on the relationship with his parents. He has enough energy for that.
Blood is thicker than water. No matter how toxic it may be.
There's nothing to say. There's nothing to do. He's gone. The man I married is gone. And he's not coming back.
And there's really nothing to do or say about it.
M:32,H 32 T:10, M5 BD/H Move Out: 9/2014 - extreme anger H Mental Illness Diagnosis: 4/15 Served D Papers: 10/15 Divorced: 11/15
