H's MLC #7 And the games continue

[woundedfool]

First, I think it is good you changed the atmosphere last night. I think reflecting a PMA is as important as carrying one internally.

So on the experimenting side note the things that happened:

You ASKED for a massage, and you received a massage.

Make a note the other factors around, day of week, how his work day was, how the family did, whether he cooked or not, etc. (no detail is too small).

Try to replicate many of those factors, and use that as an opportunity to ask him to get that call you want (during the day that he is thinking about you). See what happens.

Continue to experiment and monitor.