Edz, let's have a bit of a logic fun thing with this, I am sure others will chip in.
I don't know how to do tables in this and last attempt transferring a word table was very odd result.
So, why don't we set some guidelines?
Let's say we mark each GAL activity from 1 to 5 Set a target of ??.. 20 pts per week Add 10 pts each holiday week ??
Ok so GAL points Swimming, running, hiking, meals, sauna, alone one hour 1 pt (counts as out of house) Add kids extra pt per child Add spouse (if not in piecing) take off a point tv at home nul points TV at mates plus 1 pt
Club activity, sports, games, sauna, dance, sing, weight watchers, GAanon wassail 2 pts Competition sport including prep 3 pts Shopping, visiting muesem culture trip out, course with others non work 3 pts Dancing party, full on evening with meal, cinema, dinner party 4 pts
Weekend break with chums full on 5 pts for each day
Other stuff On line gaming with cohorts but not gambling 3 pts but deduct 1 pt for every hour over 8 Coffee with chum 1pt This site?
That's my starter bid lets get this going like a Mexican Wave
Wassail link (we rots really are eccentric when the world isn't watching)
Score card Wed work all day 1 pt meal, cinema and coffee with two friends 3 pts Thurs work all day but at home toothache nul pts gam anon and meal out 3 pts Friday work all day but at home nul Long call with friend abroad 2 pts coffee with visitor 1 pt sat work all day nul pts meal with friend 3 pts Sun gym 2 classes 4 pts sauna and meal with neophyte 4 pts Monday work all day 1 pt GAanon 12 steps 3 pts Tuesday Xmas lunch 4 pts less 1 as H there gam anon 3 pts overnight stay with friend 1 pt Grand total 32 pts target 30 20 plus Xmas 10 Van
Last edited by Vanilla; 12/10/1407:22 PM.
Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW
Hi Vanillia. So sorry you are having such a hard time. You are fantastic at giving advice and show such caring to others you H must be mad to treat you any way other than as the lady you obviously are.
I have no wise words other than detach. Detach. Oh and detach.
You have no control over H or his actions, look after you and keep on DBing
I look at a life without W and knowing there are lady's like yourself out there gives me great hope.
Keep strong and please know you are a very positive person who deserves much better. Take care. Rd
Sorry for H's behavior. Sounds like you handled it pretty well. You are such a wonderful example! I appreciate it.
Me 52, H53 Bomb drop 9/29/2014 Divorce from XH final 12/17/2014 Marriage #2 12/31/2019 5 adult (step)daughters (3 from XH's first marriage, 2 from current H's previous relationships) 6 grandkids
