I wouldn't mind read too much into her being more distant at times. LBS's are on a roller coaster, but from everything I've seen, WAS's roller coaster is even more violent than ours, in most cases. Sometimes my WAW greets me with a warm smile that almost makes me feel comfortable kissing her, a smile I would be upset with if she gave it to another man. Then she'll go a week without saying barely a word to me. Then she'll be mean. Then she'll happily invite me to the gym with her.

I'm not smart enough to figure out that puzzle through mind reading, so I'm just trying to let her ride it out


Me 38, WAW 30
D11 (former marriage)
S2
T 8 years
M 3 years
BD 8/20/23
S 8/20/23