Wife is giving mixed signals? I think? HELP!

[MrBond]

Not enough information. Dig deep and write down the issues. Think about the little things she would say under her breath. Or the things that bothered her.

[CORC320]

Well she just text me and told me that she dropped the papers and that I should be getting them soon.

[CORC320]

I'm out guys there's no hope now, but thanks for the advice.

[MrBond]

"I'm out guys there's no hope now, but thanks for the advice."

I can tell you that there is alot of hope.

But if you want to end it. Good luck to you.

[CORC320]

So what am I supposed to do? I have been fighting for almost 2 years since her affair. How much longer should a guy fight for? If there was some sign of life in my marriage I would continue to fight, but she doesn't even talk to me. At what time do I need to cut bait and go?

[MrBond]

I fought for my M for almost 4 years before my W started to even start turning thins around.

Only you can say when it's time to quit. If you want to quit, go ahead. There's no shame in that if you gave it your all. But hard to give you advice when you keep saying there was nothing wrong with your M to begin with.

[CORC320]

I know that there was issues in my marriage. She just didn't talk about it or let me know. I said the things I did wrong in my first post. She filed doesnt that mean it's over?

[Fartiltre]

She filed doesnt that mean it's over?

NO!!! - it's over when YOU decide. Nobody can decide that for you, but you!

[MrBond]

I know that there was issues in my marriage. She just didn't talk about it or let me know. I said the things I did wrong in my first post. She filed doesnt that mean it's over?

Of course not. There have even been M's on here that already D'd and then got back together again.