I've often wondered, what's the difference between "going dark" and going into the LRT? Are they essentially the same thing...particularly if you're seperated physically?
A dream it's true
But I'd see it through
If I could be
Wasting my time with you
-Band:Phish Song:Waste
As with confused hope, if you were able to take a look at my sitch, I greatly appreciate it.
Otherwise, if my H is away having thinking / decision time, is this the time I should be going dark? I have a 2.5yr old, who he MAY want to talk to, but if he's having time, and OW is still contacting him, can't my going dark be detrimental? I was the fixer previously, had to have the fight and fix it all. Too much confrontation and not enough listening (not that he ever talked). BUT if I ring him he will feel pressured.
Unsure of the next move, as I don't know how long he is planning on being gone.
