Gosh, that year went by quickly, but it was worth every minute for your H to get back to normal Yes, reconnection and building a new relationship takes a lot of hard work, patience and time...but it has paid off for you and your family. I am so very happy that things are looking so good after all of this time.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
Thank you Job, and your support for the most difficult time in my life. I know that what ever throws at me, from now on, I can handle it, thanks to you and my mates on here.
Again, thanks to you, Andrew, Bttrfy, Coly, DnJ, Gerda, Roist......gosh there are so many over the years.
Thank you all, I love you and will always be here for you.
On BD H52, W50 T27, M26 S21, D23 BD-9-Mar-16 D-15-Jan-18 Final-19-Apr-18 I am a storyteller. The story may do you no good. But a story is never for the listener. It is always for the one who tells
What a wonderful update. Very nice to see H is more his old self. It’s especially wonderful to read about your view of life and the person you are. So very pleased for you and your family.
I am happy for you, and proud of you.
DnJ
Feelings are fleeting. Be better, not bitter. Love the person, forgive the sin.
Westo, I always have secretly lurked on your thread (I really don't mean to sound creepy). I'm so pleased for you. I hope you and H and Hector are having a lovely time.
When the time came, you let your H go. And I do think that made all the difference. You lived your life and let H live his, which to me shows the ultimate respect. Just because your H loved you once, does not mean he was obligated to love you in the same way forever - so you let him figure that out for himself. And meanwhile you kept on loving yourself, your family, and your life.
I have so much respect for the grace in which you've lived through what is a difficult time.
R 25 years M 14 years S11 & S13 Working on it alone since Oct 2014 M in trouble a lot earlier (~2 years) Feb 2016. 1st R chat in a yr. Next R chat Aug'17 Still together
Happy Anniversary, Westo, you brave and victorious girl! Wish I had mastered your funny (Welsh?) sayings so I could throw one in here. Thanks for all you taught us via your journey.
I believe I will see the bounty of the Lord in the land of the living. Wait for the Lord with courage. Be stouthearted, and wait for the Lord.
