Previous Thread
Next Thread
Print Thread
Page 2 of 11 1 2 3 4 10 11
Joined: Jan 2003
Posts: 18,913
Likes: 316
K
kml Offline
Member
Offline
Member
K
Joined: Jan 2003
Posts: 18,913
Likes: 316
Well, you know if it was me I wouldn't be going. But since you are, remember:
You're not the other woman
Don't compare yourself to her - he's with you for a reason
Don't get jealous
Don't get competitive
Don't make assumptions there are two sides to every story.

Joined: Feb 2015
Posts: 6,826
Likes: 156
G
Ginger1 Offline OP
Member
OP Offline
Member
G
Joined: Feb 2015
Posts: 6,826
Likes: 156
He told his son about us. He said he was thrilled and that his son loves me. My heart is exploding .

Joined: Jul 2017
Posts: 4,560
T
Member
Offline
Member
T
Joined: Jul 2017
Posts: 4,560
When are you getting married G? smile


Married 14, Together 17
M: 44, W: 43, D: 8, D: 6
M: 46, W: 45. D: 10. D: 8 (CUR)
Bomb Dropped: 5/28/2017
Separation Date: 6/17/2017
Divorce Filed: 2/7/2018
Divorce Final: 4/12/2018
Joined: Feb 2015
Posts: 6,826
Likes: 156
G
Ginger1 Offline OP
Member
OP Offline
Member
G
Joined: Feb 2015
Posts: 6,826
Likes: 156


Originally Posted by TBSakaJ9
When are you getting married G? smile


Haha! He then said he laid down the groundwork for a surprise for the 3 of us. I was like “omg, is he proposing?!”

Most likely not.

Joined: Jul 2017
Posts: 4,560
T
Member
Offline
Member
T
Joined: Jul 2017
Posts: 4,560
Rhut rho......G is starting to do some nesting!


Married 14, Together 17
M: 44, W: 43, D: 8, D: 6
M: 46, W: 45. D: 10. D: 8 (CUR)
Bomb Dropped: 5/28/2017
Separation Date: 6/17/2017
Divorce Filed: 2/7/2018
Divorce Final: 4/12/2018
Joined: Feb 2015
Posts: 6,826
Likes: 156
G
Ginger1 Offline OP
Member
OP Offline
Member
G
Joined: Feb 2015
Posts: 6,826
Likes: 156
Last night went really well. It was freakin adorable. It was the moms night so she brought him. That woman is a miserable looking woman. She sat with her parents behind us. His son ran over to him as soon as he saw him and they got some pictures in. His son just looked at dad the whole time. It was sad, when they were done, they said “go find your families” and you could tell he couldn’t decide which one. His mom got to him fast, but M got him took some more pics and we got to congratulate him. Everyone was hanging out, but the mom just whisked him off. M walked around the truck and could see his mom carrying him while he was crying. She’s a horrible woman. M shed tears during the graduation, it was so cute. He put his arm around me, held my hand. We went out to dinner and had a drink when we dropped his mom off, went back to his place, but I had to sneak out and go home and tend to my dog. We were laying in bed and he thanked me for my patience with everything . I apologized for my impatience. He thanked me a whole bunch of times for going last night. It must have meant a lot to him.

Tonight we are taking the kiddos to the state fair. Tomorrow night we have our concert, Saturday night we have our concert , Saturday we have our other concert and our overnight down the shore. I’m super excited.

Off to take my dog to an evaluation day at the dog resort. He better be a good pup

Joined: Jul 2017
Posts: 4,560
T
Member
Offline
Member
T
Joined: Jul 2017
Posts: 4,560
Good for you G.....sounds like things went well and he was comfortable around his XW, X-in laws, etc. Have a fun weekend! Remember to just enjoy!


Married 14, Together 17
M: 44, W: 43, D: 8, D: 6
M: 46, W: 45. D: 10. D: 8 (CUR)
Bomb Dropped: 5/28/2017
Separation Date: 6/17/2017
Divorce Filed: 2/7/2018
Divorce Final: 4/12/2018
Joined: Jan 2000
Posts: 28,300
Likes: 115
job Offline
Member
Offline
Member
Joined: Jan 2000
Posts: 28,300
Likes: 115
I am glad everything went well. Sounds like you had a good time and are comfortable around all of his family, including the xw.

Enjoy your weekend!


Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to.
The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
Joined: Jan 2003
Posts: 18,913
Likes: 316
K
kml Offline
Member
Offline
Member
K
Joined: Jan 2003
Posts: 18,913
Likes: 316
Quote
She’s a horrible woman.


IS she a horrible woman? Or is she just a woman who is not over her ex and extremely uncomfortable at you being there?

Joined: Feb 2015
Posts: 6,826
Likes: 156
G
Ginger1 Offline OP
Member
OP Offline
Member
G
Joined: Feb 2015
Posts: 6,826
Likes: 156
Thank you. It was a very nice night. Looking forward to the weekend!


She is indeed a horrible woman. Not an exaggeration. She does some very very messed up things. It’s actually heartbreaking

Page 2 of 11 1 2 3 4 10 11

Moderated by  Cadet, DnJ, job, Michele Weiner-Davis 

Link Copied to Clipboard