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#2822903 11/19/18 09:00 PM
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Me:39 W:36
S:12 D:9
T:14 M:11
Separation:sep. 1 2017
D filed oct. 2017
D finalized july 2018
OM confirmed feb 2018
D finalized July 2018

The fact is this. You have to be in pain before you can learn.
petri #2823286 11/21/18 03:57 PM
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Petri, just wanted to give you some encouragement to keep your chin up and keep moving forward! You go this and I will continue to keep you and the kids in my prayers.


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M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017
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petri #2823305 11/21/18 04:53 PM
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Thanks Steve! You've been a huge influence. I have nothing but respect for you. It's going to take a lot to drop my chin down after this turmoil. Life has many great things in the making. We just need to pick them up when they are ready to be picked up. Upwards and onwards!


Me:39 W:36
S:12 D:9
T:14 M:11
Separation:sep. 1 2017
D filed oct. 2017
D finalized july 2018
OM confirmed feb 2018
D finalized July 2018

The fact is this. You have to be in pain before you can learn.
petri #2823313 11/21/18 05:05 PM
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Hey Petri,

I posted a question on page 10 of your last thread, just in case you didn't see it.


H 34
W 29
BD 3/12/18
Divorce Busted Spring 19

It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.
petri #2823353 11/21/18 07:37 PM
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ovrrnbw. I saw it. I guess the reason is that I still my other hand squeezing the rope. I don't see any other reason. My other hamd is reaching out to the next step but she pulls the rope and I slip back. I just need to loosen the grip. No excuses. Brutal reality.


Me:39 W:36
S:12 D:9
T:14 M:11
Separation:sep. 1 2017
D filed oct. 2017
D finalized july 2018
OM confirmed feb 2018
D finalized July 2018

The fact is this. You have to be in pain before you can learn.
petri #2823364 11/21/18 08:24 PM
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Yep P, the spark of hope is a die hard soab. You are doing great man! My best wishes for you and the family.

Upwards and onwards man!


WW H(me): 53
W: 48
T: 27 M: 22
S: 18
Piecing since 03/2016
Saw the light in the storm
petri #2823624 11/23/18 08:05 PM
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I would have never believed this. Here I am drinking wine with my ex-FIL at ex-inlaws cabin. This is actually fun.


Me:39 W:36
S:12 D:9
T:14 M:11
Separation:sep. 1 2017
D filed oct. 2017
D finalized july 2018
OM confirmed feb 2018
D finalized July 2018

The fact is this. You have to be in pain before you can learn.
petri #2823643 11/23/18 11:18 PM
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That's weird. Everyone probably thinks it is. I hope you get what you want Petri. smile


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BD 3/12/18
Divorce Busted Spring 19

It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.
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I meant it has to feel a little weird. But I'm glad you're having a good time.


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Divorce Busted Spring 19

It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.
petri #2823680 11/24/18 08:19 AM
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It feels weird and it is weird. The kids wanted to do this so why not.


Me:39 W:36
S:12 D:9
T:14 M:11
Separation:sep. 1 2017
D filed oct. 2017
D finalized july 2018
OM confirmed feb 2018
D finalized July 2018

The fact is this. You have to be in pain before you can learn.
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