Hi....I am coach Corey Wayne and the topic of todays video is "Followed the Rules and got Married"
Now that would be something!... something that the coach has not even been able to do!!! Hmmmmm think about that for a minute will ya.
DonH Midwest Me 56 WAW-EXW 55 Met 11/95 / Married 5/00 Bomb 6/20/05 / She Filed on 6/2/06 / Divorced on 10/9/06 4 who'd qualify as GF since D & dated about 25 women since D
CW has been married and I am pretty sure he has said he isn't getting married again.
H(37) W(35) D8, D5, S3 T20, M13 BD 8/31/18 EA Discovered 9/13/18 Mediation 10/3/18 W files for D 10/12/18 W moves out 11/10/18 EA confirmed 12/25/18 D Final 1/10/19
So in listing your cons you talked yourself into her being a good match.
Are you ready to be in a relationship with her? Because that’s what she said more or less.
I personally think it’s distasteful when people temp check by mentioning how someone else is hitting on them. I find it highly disrespectful probably because I was cheated on. Any guy who would point that out to me would completely turn me off and not attract me considering what I have gone through. Also it’s a big “ look at how lucky you are, I’m desired but you got me” cockiness is also a big turn off of mine.
Now that I put the negative out there, which is strictly personal opinion, she is most definitely into you, and you really dig that. And even though she’s tall, she’s a size 4 and you definitely like that. She’s surely turned the tables and is pursing you now, and you wanted that. So if the stuff that I said bothers me, doesn’t bother you, sounds like you Are in a positive path with her. It’s still only a month. You might still grow to like her even more and you may grow to like her less. Time. It takes time.
It doesn't bother me G. I need to explore it to determine if my feelings grow. I dont think I talked myself into being a match rather getting used to something different. As you told me to be more open
That’s what I was trying to say, J. First off, for a 46 year old professional woman, I think that comment was childish and insecure. I missed the part where she even mentioned he goes to the same gym as the two of you. What is her purpose? To show you how “lucky” you are because she is so desired and she chose you? So you should look over your shoulder at the gym to see who wants your woman?
She could have simply said “I took down my profile becausebim off the market! “
The woman who said she expects a guy to do all thenpursing then tells the guy she is dating that another guy is pursuing her is kind of messed up.
I don’t want to turn what is a positive experience to you I. A negative one, but I would keep my eyes open for more similar behaviors. Maybe she just really didn’t know how to tell you. But if she starts to throw other guys in your face again, I’d put a stop to that childish behavior
That’s what I was trying to say, J. First off, for a 46 year old professional woman, I think that comment was childish and insecure. I missed the part where she even mentioned he goes to the same gym as the two of you. What is her purpose? To show you how “lucky” you are because she is so desired and she chose you? So you should look over your shoulder at the gym to see who wants your woman?
Yeah this is how I felt about it but I didn't want to rain on your parade because things are going really well for you. Like G said I wouldn't make a big deal out of it but keep your ears open. A smoking hot doctor shouldn't have to throw other dudes in your face to either feel good about herself or get what she wants from you. Especially when my spidey senses tell me she at minimum embellished the truth.
