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Originally Posted by DejaVu6
I No offense to the people on here who are dating.

None taken!!!!!

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I didnt not acknowledge it trying to be rude. My initial thought was she told me because she saw mine was down and wanted me to know she followed suit. Hers was still up when I took mine down so I would have no way of knowing. I will see her on Friday and follow up with her comment. Although me not responding to it does provide a little bit of a challenge.


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J I know you weren't trying to be rude I just commenting on how it may be perceived.

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Hell now I feel bad. I guess I thought she would be more direct about it and it was via text message as well. Although i guess that was pretty direct.............smh


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No worries. Like the coach says "when there is a high attraction you can afford to make mistakes".

LOL. Yeah life would be great if everyone was direct and to the point and we didn't need to read between the lines.

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True....something like that prob would only make the attraction stronger since it's only been a month and I didnt take the bait. Not on purpose but you know what the coach says when your feelings are unclear.

We did chat on the phone a bit this morning on my way to work and she has already sent me a text telling me what restaurant she wants to try. Then it was followed by I miss you, along with her missing a few other things.......bahaaa!!!


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I want an invite to the wedding.

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Oh boy.....we could invite the coach!


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You should send CW an email so we can watch his YouTube response.


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