Maybe they are trying to spare your feelings. Or perhaps all is not wonderful in smoochy-ville.
Not your circus.
On BD H52, W50 T27, M26 S21, D23 BD-9-Mar-16 D-15-Jan-18 Final-19-Apr-18 I am a storyteller. The story may do you no good. But a story is never for the listener. It is always for the one who tells
J. - my ex does that too. He’s taking my son away for a 1 night trip with his mom and girlfriend and girlfriends 4 year. old. When he tells me the plans he says it’s just him and his mom. It’s so f’n annoying. I know about it through my son.it makes me hate my ex even more and I can’t identify why.
It normally doesn’t bother me especially since I told her a year ago I wanted to know nothing about him unless it had to do with my girls. So I guess she is respecting my wishes but after a year it just seems odd especially if she had lost respect for me. If she didn’t I would think she would have been flaunting him around in my face like some of the others guys experience around here.
Just because they are our ex's doesn't mean that they can't be decent people. They probably were fairly decent or for those of us who were married a long time and built a life together - we wouldn't have.
Time passes and we can hope that them being a jerk takes effort.
Just don't tell my own ex I said that
And I do some ex-spouses can be jerks with little or no effort.
On BD H52, W50 T27, M26 S21, D23 BD-9-Mar-16 D-15-Jan-18 Final-19-Apr-18 I am a storyteller. The story may do you no good. But a story is never for the listener. It is always for the one who tells
True...my xw was never really a jerk even early on. There is so much both of us could have do to each other but didnt.
On a side note the dr told me last night one of her patients hit on her and asked her out. I just laughed and then she came back and told me her profile was down and she was off the market. I guess she just wanted me to know......
J9 is this her way of saying she wants to be exclusive?
H(37) W(35) D8, D5, S3 T20, M13 BD 8/31/18 EA Discovered 9/13/18 Mediation 10/3/18 W files for D 10/12/18 W moves out 11/10/18 EA confirmed 12/25/18 D Final 1/10/19
Lol.....the big smooth!! I mean it's cool, I guess I am a little excited. I feel myself getting closer to her. I am still very cautious though esp after going through a D. Not sure I will ever let me guard down again or pit anyone on a pedestal.
