LOL. Thank God Rex took the pressure off me with that statement.
You send your wife/girlfriend roses no doubt but not someone you have been on six dates and are not exclusive with.
Listen, I'm telling you how to succeed with women. You don't have to follow my advise. But I guarantee that you just give the woman that waited 6 dates to sleep with you a card, and she will find another guy. A lot of guys at this age are willing to go that extra mile. So you put yourself out of the competition by looking cheap.
I will tell you that if a woman leaves you because of this, because of a card instead of roses then she was not for you and you should move on. She has no true value of your worth.
Rex
M:43 W:33 M:10 T:11 D:6 BD 8/12/17 Divorce Final 1/23/2019
So sorry....wasn't wearing my glasses. I should learn not to try to type or read without them. Totally not you. I should've said yes Rex some of us DO understand. I just can't embrace this whole getting old and having to wear readers thing, but denial is becoming futile with these mistakes.
Lol. I need them too. I just don't need Rex getting me in trouble. I get in enough of my own lol.
Most men want inside a woman's head to know what to do, and here are a bunch of women telling you, yet the guys are arguing that it's a bad idea. I am completely baffled here.
J- put all of that aside.
What do YOU WANT to do. Not what you think you should do or what others think you should do, but what do you want to do and what do you think she would appreciate?
It's not about the cost I just dont want to come across as too relationshipy. I settled on a mix of pink Rose's, daisies, lilies, larkspur with white snap dragons and lavender. Someone please take my man card......
"What about the spouses that live the bare minimum because of paying child support. There are examples in both directions. Which is why they will never understand. Each case is different because there are spouses that pay and there are spouses that dont pay. This is one reason why I will never get married again until the marriage law in the US changes. It just isnt worth it anymore. And they wonder why kids are like they are. Unless one makes really good money, both parents are required to work just to make it now a days and the kids are the ones that suffer. I cant teach my daughter to be a woman just like a woman can teach a son how to be a man. I understand people are not going to like that comment but that is my opinion"
Rex, what do you propose the law be changed to regarding child support? 17% for 1 child is really not a lot - plus there is more to the calculation based on both salaries. Personally, I think they should look more at who chose to leave the marriage, affairs, addictions that took up a lot of money. But that is probably not realistic and would cost too much in court fees.
Most men want inside a woman's head to know what to do, and here are a bunch of women telling you, yet the guys are arguing that it's a bad idea. I am completely baffled here.
J- put all of that aside.
What do YOU WANT to do. Not what you think you should do or what others think you should do, but what do you want to do and what do you think she would appreciate?
Because that's all that really matters.
I would agree because no man or woman here is in the Dr's head we can only speculate. You be a leader and take care of yourself.
M:43 W:33 M:10 T:11 D:6 BD 8/12/17 Divorce Final 1/23/2019
It's not about the cost I just dont want to come across as too relationshipy. I settled on a mix of pink Rose's, daisies, lilies, larkspur with white snap dragons and lavender. Someone please take my man card......
It does not come across as relationshipy. Just shows that you are attracted to her and you appreciate her and find her valuable enough to make an effort. She is not the type to settle with less.
I just can't embrace this whole getting old and having to wear readers thing, but denial is becoming futile with these mistakes.