Well I went out with the dr again last night, she even paid for dinner and the evening was great. We ended up going out again because she reached out to me yesterday so I asked her when she was free.
Here comes the interesting part. We did not have sex again, she did not invite me into her bedroom so it was pretty much a repeat of Friday night. When I pulled up in her driveway we sat in the car and kissed. She did not invite me in like Friday night but then she made a comment about it being past my bedtime and I said well I don't have to leave then she came back with ok you can come in but keep your pants on. Fine, ok seemed odd.
So we went inside, she poured us a glass of wine and then we went to the couch where we continued. So it ended after a while, she told me I better go so I got dressed, she did the same and she walked me to the door. She told me to have a happy superbowl Sunday and off I went. Then when I got home I sent her a text saying thank you and she didnt respond. First time that has happened.
Maybe I missed all of her sex signals , maybe I didnt push it hard enough. Idk but it just seems odd.
Last edited by job; 02/03/1901:01 PM. Reason: added link to previous thread
Maybe she has a penis? JK!! She’s old-fashioned remember?
She’s probably not going to have actual intercourse until she sees it going somewhere. Trumpet guy would be buck naked with me and do everything but because he saw it going no where apparently. So he didn’t want a notch on the bed post. Some people don’t want that botch kn their bedpost until they know it might be the only notch for a little while.
Not saying she’s a dick like trumpet guy. She’s just not there yet.
Maybe G....outside of her not responding to my text everything was great. Good convo, I ran into 1 of my basketball buddies at dinner so he came over and gave me a shameless plug..said i was a good dude. It just felt like she wanted to go there with sex but didnt want to if that makes sense so we had our fun multiple times for her and that was it.
Her not responding to my text is what has thrown me. Other than that it was a great night. And she offered to pay before we even left her house.
Dont worry about 1 single text. Maybe she didnt see it. Or it didnt go through.
If shes old fashioned, she might be waiting for indications of monogomy? Some women dont want to sleep with guys that are also dating and sleeping with other women. That doesnt mean they want to be married to you though.
Ok...next week early on would not have happened since I get my girls today at 3 but I guess I just could have waited until this coming up weekend. There was no R talk and my profile is still up but I could tell by the questions she was asking me that she is wanting to know more. Before she jumped me on the couch she asked me where I saw myself in 10 years. Then at dinner sex came up and she told me the guy she dated for 3 months she had him buy a 30 dollar std test on Amazon before she had sex with him. So yeah might not be ready for that yet.
I wont see her for a while now since I get my girls today. I assume since I sent the last text I should just sit back and wait for her to respond?
