I got so wrapped up in the talk of grammar and meat preferences that I forgot to ask something that stuck out to me. This is totally just out of curiosity...not trying to be a smart aleck. I feel like I missed a step somewhere along the way again. You have said several times in relation to this lady that she does not have sex outside of an R. But now you are getting tested because you say she won't have sex with you unless you get tested. How did we get from no sex outside of R to you getting tested for her peace of mind? It doesn't seem like you are ready for the whole R thing with her yet as y'all are still getting to know each other, so, not sure where the test is coming into play.
Me 52, H53 Bomb drop 9/29/2014 Divorce from XH final 12/17/2014 Marriage #2 12/31/2019 5 adult (step)daughters (3 from XH's first marriage, 2 from current H's previous relationships) 6 grandkids
OMG, Dawn, very good point. You have sex with her, it's like you are automatically in a relationship with her. You don't even have to have the "talk". The "sex" is going to make you the automatic boyfriend. On date 4. Oh man.
I guarantee you I wont be having sex with her on date 4. She will then be gone from 12/21 through 12/28 so sex won't happen until after then. Date 4 has been set for Tuesday night. I got tested assuming we will continue to see each other and it would eventually lead to it. If that doesn't happen at least I will have peace of mind from the HG encounter and if anyone else would happen to ask me to be tested I can show them my results.
We have actually discussed it and she did tell me she wasn't ready yet as we are still getting to know each other. I do assume though that before it happens some conversation is going to take place that will be initiated by her.
I still don't know if she is playing games or not. I know you bet each other that she would have sex with me without a blood test however her words have lined up with her actions. I know she is really into me and while she may be excited I do believe that she is trying to pace herself. If she wasn't she would have had sex with me at my house on date 2. If that would have happened you all would have went NUTS!
I do get the impression she is trying to feel me out based on some comments she has made. Trying to feel me out as to where I stand with her. I don't know how fast guys have fallen for her in the past or how fast they have pushed for a relationship but I get the sense that I am different than what she has had in the past. I am not saying that I am something special but that I am more of a challenge to her.
