J- Even though I met M on Bumble, that site is poorly designed for anyone trying to take anyone seriously. It's basically a Tinder for women to respond first. Atleast on the other sites you can say something about yourself and it sets up for an opening line. I found I matched to a lots of guys, but I had nothing to say to a picture except "hi" I tried my best to respond to the people who put SOMETHING in there about themselves. And the 24 hour time limit doesn't help.
And STOP! no, maybe you weren't her first choice. But I highly doubt it had anything to do with that. Again, I matched with like 30 guys in a day once. Too may expired before I could say anything, some I had nothing to say, and a lot didn't respond when I did.
You just have to keep your expectations low and not speculate that you weren't heir first choice. Maybe you were, maybe you weren't, but really, it's a picture. So maybe you will be someone3's 5th choice for whatever reason and if you get the chance to know eachother, you will become the 1st!
G, I've wondered what Bumble is like on the female side. Are you limited to how many men you can respond to in a 24 hour period?
I've had plenty of Bumble connections expire too. Sometimes I'll do the daily extend, and they still never contact me. I bet the "rules" of the app are promoting this kind of behavior.
Me-47,XW-43 S13,S16 M:18 BD:4-23-17 W filed:7-17-17 (5 months of in-house separation hell) W moved out:1-6-18 D granted:2-15-18 Decree signed:3-29-18
bumble must not like me.........I get a ton of interest and likes on Match but barely anything on bumble. In fact all of my dates and female correspondence has been on Match. I don't think I have chatted with 1 girl on bumble. Crazy.
. I will be lucky to have 30 matches in a year on BUMBLE