Then she isn't the woman for you, you didn't blow it. A bunch of us get together, pregame at the host's house, pack up the doggie stroller with booze and take the kids trick-or-treating! That's how we roll over here!
Right.....I mean that's the only way I can get through it. People are sooo sensitive these days. One girl doesn't like Ice Cube and the other isn't into Halloween. I mean really??????? Who doesn't like Ice Cube? SMH. Some people take themselves wayyyyyy to seriously!
Two days before my trip and I am started to get excited. I am visiting my two best friends that I have known since 1st grade so it should be some good man time. Friday night we are going to go see Skynyrd in concert so that should be interesting
On a side a note I should reach out and check in with blondy today but I am just not feeling it. Outside of the interest she showed on the date she still has not reached out one time. I don't expect her to blow up my phone but I guess I do expect something on her part. I know some girls won't engage until after 2 or 3 dates so IDK. I have given her plenty of space as the last time we chatted was a brief interaction on Friday.
On a side note I played basketball yesterday and some dude took my legs out from underneath of me and I landed awkwardly on my hip. I think it is a hip pointer or a deep bone bruise but I can barely walk and had to take the elevator this morning vs the steps up to my office. It's so fricken painful.
I think she does but what are YOU doing to build the attraction? It seems like your only method of building attraction is to be quiet, distant and "mysterious". That may work sometimes on some people but attraction can die just as fast if it's not nurtured. You have to do something to build attraction with her - like reaching out and saying something.
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Well we have only been on one date in a month, she never initiates contact with me and when I do we usually just end up bantering back and forth with each other. Last night we shot about 4 messages back and forth about tank tops, tattoos, and me wearing her workout pants.
Me.....hey you how’s your week? It is raining again
Her......definitely not tank top weather you can borrow my workout pants instead lol
Me...so you shrunk my tank top and now it’s a midriff and now your wanting me to wear your work out pants? What is going on here?
It just continued liked like this for maybe 3 or 4 more messages then the convo ended through natural progression of me saying ha!!! to something she said and she didn’t respond back. I would initiate contact more of she was reaching out but she isn’t so I am just trying to read the signs she is giving off.
Obviously she is not ready to end it yet or ghost me so I am not sure what she is thinking other than she is casually dating or else she just wants me around for me to hit her up every 3 or 4 days. I am not purposely trying to be mysterious but I don’t think calling her every day or every other day is the way to go. I will reach out to her when I get back in town next week and ask her out I just thought yday was too soon. I also would rather build the attraction in person
So I don’t know what’s going with her but I am not worrying about it really. Maybe she just wants a f buddy and is determining if I can handle it or not, or she is casually dating and just wants to have fun, or I am option b or c and she is not really serious yet with her first option.
Again I am just trying to take it slow and read the signs she is giving off.
