Im having my 2nd DB coaching session tonight. Looking forward to it. Still GAL, detaching and keeping calm.
BH: 36 WW:33 M: 2 Relationship: 6 years. Dday: Aug 2018 0 1st mention of D: 30/09, 2nd Mention 17/02/2019 LRT: Oct 2018 WW & AP: EA & PA since June 2018 (Moved country and in with AP Feb 2019)
No update. Haven't heard anything from W in nearly 2 weeks, since she messaged me looking for a D. Been going to IC, GAL and doing my best. Saw a picture of her on LinkedIn today at a work convention in the AP country. She looked happy with her work colleagues. It knocked me back, i must admit. Its been nearly 5 weeks since i last saw her in person.
I'm feeling a little better. But, the sadness and hurt hasn't disappeared.
BH: 36 WW:33 M: 2 Relationship: 6 years. Dday: Aug 2018 0 1st mention of D: 30/09, 2nd Mention 17/02/2019 LRT: Oct 2018 WW & AP: EA & PA since June 2018 (Moved country and in with AP Feb 2019)
Yeah. It [censored] but is normal to get knocked for a bit of a loop when you see a picture of the WAS unexpectedly or even worse, run into him/her. That's just part of the process. It gets easier with time.
What are you doing for GAL? How are you making yourself amoafwl?
W 34 Me 42 Married 7 years together 8 0 kids 1 beloved dog BD 4/6/2018 I moved out 4/7/2018 I moved back in alone 8/05/2018 I file 3/06/2019 D official 5/7/2019
I know guys. I have gone out by myself a few times, going to a few gigs and even got a girls number last week. Right now i really have no interest in other women, as I wish my wife and I could being an R. But shes still having an A with this guy since June. She's a WW, feeling happy and free now away from me... I haven't even got a decent reason why she left. It's life she did a complete 180 in her life since she met this guy.
I feel hopeless. I pray every day and i'm getting slowly better and accepting this. It hurts that she never even tried MC with me.
BH: 36 WW:33 M: 2 Relationship: 6 years. Dday: Aug 2018 0 1st mention of D: 30/09, 2nd Mention 17/02/2019 LRT: Oct 2018 WW & AP: EA & PA since June 2018 (Moved country and in with AP Feb 2019)
I’m sorry M. It gets better but it takes time. Keep detaching and GAL. It must be a choice you know, make yourself do that things, do GAL. W is not the W you knew now. Remember that. You can’t live in the past. You need to move forward, improve yourself and get into amoafwl.
You can do it Manta
WW H(me): 53 W: 48 T: 27 M: 22 S: 18 Piecing since 03/2016 Saw the light in the storm
So W messaged me this evening after 2 weeks nc saying one of our friends messaged her about catching up with us, W asked me that i should let them know that as we are not together anymore, or W can as it would be rude not to reply.
Wtf should i say.
Last edited by Manta; 10/13/1806:38 PM.
BH: 36 WW:33 M: 2 Relationship: 6 years. Dday: Aug 2018 0 1st mention of D: 30/09, 2nd Mention 17/02/2019 LRT: Oct 2018 WW & AP: EA & PA since June 2018 (Moved country and in with AP Feb 2019)
BH: 36 WW:33 M: 2 Relationship: 6 years. Dday: Aug 2018 0 1st mention of D: 30/09, 2nd Mention 17/02/2019 LRT: Oct 2018 WW & AP: EA & PA since June 2018 (Moved country and in with AP Feb 2019)
I haven't kept up with your sitch, but I'd say "that's entirely up to you how you handle it. Let me know what you decide." If they're good friends, follow up in a few days, and reconnect as part of GAL.
M:23 T:26 Me:53, Wife: 60 S:18 D:16 filed 7/16 W moved out 4/28/17
