I really think you are shooting yourself in the foot here. Reach out to the woman and ask how her day is. A woman who is interested will LOVE that and perhaps feel more comfortable pursuing when you show her the lead.
We did kiss at the end of the date, an appropriate first date kiss.....it was a little awkward because it was by the valet stand and she commented that she hoped we would do this again sometime. I told her I would be in touch and I texted her when I got home to make sure she got home ok since we had been drinking and we’re about 20 min away from our houses. She responded right away, we had a brief exchange, she told me to sleep tight and that was it. The only negative to the date was about for the last hour of the date a band started playing so it was very hard to carry on conversation. She did say though that she had a blast.
So I will reach out to her later this week and try to set something up for next week and see where it goes. She still is not actively pursuing me or initiating contact which is concerning but maybe that is just part of her playing the game and keeping her options open.
She may not be initiating contact but she is pursuing in her own way. you had a date, and she was very responsive with your text afterwards. There is no harm in a text midweek around wednesday asking how she is and setting up a date for the next week. The date doesnt need to be on the weekend could be during the week when you dont have your kids.
You do not want to be to much no contact, because then she might think you are not interested and she could move on.
Rex
M:43 W:33 M:10 T:11 D:6 BD 8/12/17 Divorce Final 1/23/2019
^^^^ all that Rex bolded is her laying the groundwork for your to advance. That's her way of pursuing. She expressed strong interest now she is hoping you will follow through with her obvious signs of interest.
ok ok ok......I will reach out, should I ask her if she is free for lunch this week or just save it and get together next week? She is out of town this weekend and I am out of town next weekend so my only opportunities are a lunch date this week and if she is available during the middle of the week next week. The cool thing is that I work like 5 min from her house and she works from home....her kid is in 7th grade so I could do a mid day quickie
