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thanks lw.
likewise with D14 she wants her family back. but every time, she thinks about what WW is doing, she loses hope, suddenly she has a negative outlook of the world around her. trying to keep her positive everyday.


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update...
went out to dinner with D14. had a steak, her favorite. she seems fine.


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toe,

She may seem fine on the outside. Just be mindful and present when you are with her. As I said before - reach for those memorable moments to connect with D14. Sounds like you guys had a great time - Keep it up !!


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got a text message from WW last night about how she wants out of the M, because she doesn’t want to be with me and doesn’t want to deal with the bullying and immaturity. Had to reply to it. Told her, how not getting caught in bed, WW having an illicit A, her daughter seeing how she acts with POS, isn’t immature? Added, i forgave you and yet she still continued to hangout with POS. Long story short, ended my message with, D14 is being taken care of an immature bully, aren’t you worried about it! Maybe you need to step up.


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Told her too, if she wants to file for D, then she does it herself. It’s not the way Inwant to end this MR, but that’s where your mind is set at then do the necessary steps.


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A good response except for the name calling. Don't stoop down unless you just want a fight.


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thanks ovrr...
can’t help but call OM a POS. should’ve just said it.


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I was referring to you calling your W a bully.

As for the OM, I wouldn't even talk about him. There's no point.


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yup. thanks for that ovrr.

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update...
WW home after a whole weekend of NC with D14. She told D14 last week she has her own place and yet, she comes
home every am to shower and leave for work. hmmm...D14 knows she doesn’t have a place and just spending the nights with POS. must be tiring.


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