Remember NC means you don't initiate contact. If she texts you a text without a question don't respond. Responding to questions is fine but do it in as few words as possible. Yes or no questions get yes or no answers. And don't respond right away all the time. Respond in your own time.
I'd text her back. "We're good."
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
BH: 36 WW:33 M: 2 Relationship: 6 years. Dday: Aug 2018 0 1st mention of D: 30/09, 2nd Mention 17/02/2019 LRT: Oct 2018 WW & AP: EA & PA since June 2018 (Moved country and in with AP Feb 2019)
This is going to be a tough weekend. It's our 2nd year weddings anniversary. Still in NC. Went for a few beers last night on my own, it's very emotional seeing other couples smiling and having fun. Staying strong. I know i'll make it.
Doing a lot of reading DB and DR. Other good books too, also listening to Joe Beam on limerence. Interesting to understand that.
BH: 36 WW:33 M: 2 Relationship: 6 years. Dday: Aug 2018 0 1st mention of D: 30/09, 2nd Mention 17/02/2019 LRT: Oct 2018 WW & AP: EA & PA since June 2018 (Moved country and in with AP Feb 2019)
Today is our 2 year wedding anniversary. So hard to believe everything fell apart so quickly in the last 12 months.
I'm not going to reach out today and send her best wishes. I don't reward bad behaviour.
It was a VERY tough weekend. I have IC tonight. Not what i expected for our anniversary this year.
BH: 36 WW:33 M: 2 Relationship: 6 years. Dday: Aug 2018 0 1st mention of D: 30/09, 2nd Mention 17/02/2019 LRT: Oct 2018 WW & AP: EA & PA since June 2018 (Moved country and in with AP Feb 2019)
It's 49 days since DDay. Didn't hear anything from my W yesterday. It was our 2nd year anniversary. I'm glad i didn't buckle. Had IC yesterday which was with a new councillor. Really good session, challenged my ideals and views on our marriage and my idealised few of my wife. Said i was too understanding, and i was acting like a paternal figure to my wife, always caring for her, rather than a husband. It hurt, but it could very well be true.
He mentioned that perhaps she was submissive "as you were such a nice guy"... Everyone and anyone were telling her how good i was, even maybe herself convincing that i was so good, but you weren't meeting her emotional needs anymore which was frustrating her...
Could be very true and it was enlightening. I just hope we can have a chance to reconcile and build a new marriage, stronger, more bi directional and not 1 sided.
BH: 36 WW:33 M: 2 Relationship: 6 years. Dday: Aug 2018 0 1st mention of D: 30/09, 2nd Mention 17/02/2019 LRT: Oct 2018 WW & AP: EA & PA since June 2018 (Moved country and in with AP Feb 2019)
BH: 36 WW:33 M: 2 Relationship: 6 years. Dday: Aug 2018 0 1st mention of D: 30/09, 2nd Mention 17/02/2019 LRT: Oct 2018 WW & AP: EA & PA since June 2018 (Moved country and in with AP Feb 2019)
