Gordie 22 eight months after she dropped the D

[Gordie]

Grace here is my first post from 2016

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forum...ain=60099&Number=2719422#Post2719422

It has been a mix of nightmare, roller coaster, insane asylum and marathon



Andrew and Butterfly

Andrew absolutely hit the nail on the head

And yes what a difference a year makes

You put into words what I have not been able to

Light bulb moment

Yes she is still focused on her needs

Yes she wants me to pursue and court her again

But I want to be wanted too



Job and Westo

Thank you for the reminder that this part is hard too

I ignorantly thought this would be the easy part

I think I have given up on the grand apology

But I think those pesky expectations have risen

And the patience is wearing thin

So thank you for the reminder

I am not at the end of this marathon

I am smack dab in the middle of it

So yes of course actions speak louder than words

So let me empty myself of those negative feelings

And fill myself with gratitude

Today is a better day

[Gerda]

Yes she wants me to pursue and court her again

But I want to be wanted too

Gordie, you must have forgotten high school?

When a girl/woman wants you to pursue and court her,

she wants you.

I do not want to write anything crude, but just imagine female wildlife of your choice instigating courtship.

Female bowerbirds/cheetahs/gorillas/wild horses/coyotes do not attempt to get male bowerbirds/cheetahs/gorillas/wild horses/coyotes to court them if they do not want them.

Get to the end of this one, it will make you smile, and I think you are forgetting to laugh about the MLCer's antics (me too) --

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nWfyw51DQfU

If link gets blocked, it's youtube under Bird Of Paradise Courtship Spectacle | Planet Earth | BBC Earth.

My advice is to stop feeling sorry for yourself.

I say that as someone who feels very sorry for herself.

But on the other hand,

no one is feeling sad that I am not making him feel wanted.

So you are way farther along.

You are allowed to enjoy the pursuit.

I know without any expectations and all the LBS precautions, it's confusing.

But it seems like every high school boy's dream, to get to pursue with no expectations.

Have fun.

[job]

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