What she does doesnt matter anymore. Again, its like a light switch, and someone or something finally switched it to "LIFE - ON" mode.
I know i am susceptible to extreme highs and lows, and i need to be cautious, but i am feeling invincible right now.
And the only other items this has happened was due to some sort of court meeting or something, not everyday events.
I feel i could slay the entire Roman Legion with a toothpick right now.
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For those who stuck with me through my anger and rudeness. Thank you.
To all i offended or upset, i am genuinely sorry. Last 2 weeks were dark for me. The sun has risen, and that does not erase my trespasses, i hope to hear the respect and communication of those i pushed away through consistent positivity and advancement.
M: 35, EX-W: 3, S:4 All Divorce Proceedings Complete - Oct 18 ----------------------------------------------------- 2nd EX - Was Engaged - Diagnosed BPD 2 Major breakups. 2 Rebounds
Oh, that reminds me. I have made a decision regarding communication with WW and her Coitery.
Communication with WW: I will only answer logistical questions about transport for S3 and other childcare stuff. That only. No inserting my opinion, or fishing for info. Just Yes, No, Who What, Where and "Oh that bill was $$$, please pay your half"
Communication with MIL, FIL & Step FIL: Literally the only reason i need to talk to them now is "Hey, im here to get S3" or "Text me when you're here to get S3"
-------- I forgot to mention that yesterday i got MIL: "Hey, WW was wondering where S3's hiking carrier pack was"
I replied: "Ill get it next week" and left it at that.
Its at my parents, i will get it next weekend, and bring it down. I didn't need to answer that, i received the message and will get it for them. which is how i will handle things like that moving forward. If WW needs something she can ask me herself, and i will answer shortly and factually, and move on with my day.
M: 35, EX-W: 3, S:4 All Divorce Proceedings Complete - Oct 18 ----------------------------------------------------- 2nd EX - Was Engaged - Diagnosed BPD 2 Major breakups. 2 Rebounds
I havent been fully approved for it yet, and if i am i will not bring it up unless i am legally bound to do so.
I am also moving in 2 weeks, and she doesnt know about that yet either. Court papers say to notify within 15 days after the move. So thats what ill do.
M: 35, EX-W: 3, S:4 All Divorce Proceedings Complete - Oct 18 ----------------------------------------------------- 2nd EX - Was Engaged - Diagnosed BPD 2 Major breakups. 2 Rebounds
