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i think she's trying to keep the convo going... and maybe trying to steer it in a certain direction... this is muy interesante!

--artista

p.s.--i think the idea of asking her to go along to the party--if she mentions hanging out this weekend--is a good one... it could be fun since she knows the people too... i hope she goes with you! i think... smile

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Haha that could be Arista! I figured she'd stay away a bit longer to be honest. I was surprised she texted again so soon. Let's see where this convo goes from here. I'm not sure but I think she texts me when she's on a smoke break while at work so it may be a bit before I hear back from her.

Yeah it would be coolness if she goes with me but I was already planning on going alone anyway so no biggie either way. Of course I'm speculating that she'll even ask to hang out but my gut is saying she probably will LOL! We'll see. I'm not hanging at her house again though that's for sure. The next time we're together we will be doing something outside of her home base. That's all there is to it.


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Okay she replied and said awesome and that she's glad I have another show under my belt. As I've mentioned, we always went and saw this band over the years as we both love them and they tour constantly so she knows it's kind of a tradition with me since I was a teen. She didn't ask who I went with though so far so I'm off the hook as far as that goes LOL! I sent her a video that someone shot of the show so she could check it out. What's interesting here is this band is coming close by again later this summer...I just wonder if she has designs for us to maybe hit that show? I'm probably grasping at straws with that one but I do wonder.
In any event, we'll see what she thinks of the video and what she has to say going forward.


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Originally Posted By: ItHurts
Of course I'm speculating that she'll even ask to hang out but my gut is saying she probably will LOL! We'll see.


"Fortune favors the bold". Just ask her! You're going regardless, so what's the worst that can happen, she says "no" and you go anyway.

And it's "Artista" rather than "Arista", normally I wouldn't correct a typo but you've typed her handle that way so many times that I'm thinking you have permanently missed the extra "t" in there smile


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Hahaha oh man! How did I miss the extra "t";so many times???!!! LOL! Sorry Artista dear! Oh and no, I have no plans to go to the next concert. As long as I see them once every tour I'm good. I meant if maybe she mentions wanting to go. I myself have no plans to go again though. Sorry, I should've worded that better.


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Oops sorry, I thought you were talking about the next concert...you mean the party Saturday. Got it! Guess I didn't drink enough coffee today!


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If she asks you the you tell her.

All good.

Picnic by the lighthouse. She might start to nibble a sandwich before she runs away again.

V


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i agree with Vanilla...

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How goes?

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Drawbridge has been up since last contact V. After I sent the video from the concert and told her to check it out, she replied "Will do!" and I never heard from her again.

I did notice some mutual friends on FB who live a couple hours away posted a pic with WAW. I remember WAW telling me a couple weeks back that she was going on the road trip to visit them. I just didn't know when. Obviously it was this weekend as evidenced by the pic in my FB News Feed.

We both used to make the trip down to see them...in fact I myself was down there about 4 months ago or so.

But as far as I'm concerned...I'm still picnicing I guess. She's so bizarre, she spoke in that last text convo as if she wanted to start a conversation about the concert and then just vanished.


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