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It's good to hear from you, Mark.


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Thanks for the update Mark! everything you wrote is completely true. Hope life is bringing sunnier days for you.


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Originally Posted By: Parkema


I'll leave you with this - you can't control your WS or the A so why bother! Work on you and your children, let the process happen.

Mark.


nice... succint! in other words, "act as if..." smile

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Hi All,

Went to watch the Foo Fighters at London Olympic Stadium last night absolutely amazing and something I havent done in a loooong time!

Good to let my hair down and do something just for me.

Finding the old me again and enjoying it. Eventually those new here will be able to see that the worst can STILL with time turn out okay. Work on you and yours and let them be...

Mark.


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Don't blow the last bridge up from fantasy island, act "as if".
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Finding the old me again and enjoying it.


Fantastic!


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Hello All,

Seems all is not well on fantasy island...

My spider sense is tingling with recent comments and actions I've had.

I have been DTR more to the point where I would drop the boys off at the FH which previously was a bit of a boundary stopping me coming into contact with her LO/AP the comments I've been receiving were "it doesn't matter what time you drop them round" and "S9 you can come with me to watch S11 in his play I don't want to go on my own".

Mind reading can be a killer!

The process might be at stage three but who cares, I'm enjoying myself...

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Hey M! Ah yes, the mind-reading can have its resurgence at times again. I hope the kids are doing well and that's what really matters in the end. You've seemed to reach a really good place for yourself and it's great to know that.

Fantasy island might have cracks in the foundation smile


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Hi Mark

So what you are saying is that she is neglecting the boys now?

And no, mind reading can not be a killer. It IS a killer.


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Hi Btrow

No not at all.

WW always been good when it came to the kids. Just a very slight change in her demeanor, a bit more approachable amicable if you will but I see right through it.

Who cares if they're no longer seeing rainbows and unicorns, time is a great thing I'm slowly coming out the other side so much better and stronger than this time a year ago.

Life is good and Maika yes the boys are moving along nicely as well thanks.

Believe in the process.

Mark.


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I just read your whole thread Parkema. I'm glad your back around to give knowledge. I love reading some of the old threads, and I'm always like "Wow, I've never seen this guy or gal post before".

I guess a lot of people leave the boards when their MR are resolved or ended.

Anyways, it seems like your feeling more in control of yourself now. That is good.


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