Hey MTB, hope your Fathers Day went well, and hopefully somewhat uneventful.
It did. Thanks. Hope yours went well too...
Originally Posted By: Steve85
yeah i bet she never says another word about all of that
Originally Posted By: Vanilla
Rhetoric on her part.
Pure bullsh@t waffle junk.
V
You guys were right. No mention of it again. Although I did get a text from her on Saturday while at my grandma's party asking me to tell my grandma happy birthday and that she loves her. But I will refer back to V's quoted post concerning this text...
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Me: 38 W:31 Kids: S16(mine from previous R), D10, S9, S4 M: 10 years T:12 years BD:Jan 3, 2018 W moved out: Apr 13,2018 Filed for D: Jun 2018 D final: Sep 2019
Well... W is at it again with the birth certificates. Sent a text asking if I'd put them in the mailbox for her. I told her no. That they sat in the mailbox for 3 days last time and I didn't see any reason to help her since she was going around spreading lies about me. She asked "What lies?" I said telling everyone that I beat you, slam your head in car doors, etc.. Her response was "Slam my head in car doors? Who says I told them that?" Followed by "I've not been spreading lies. Anything I've told someone has not been a lie. If I believed everything people said about you, I wouldn't even be talking to you" I don't do a damn thing, so I'm not sure what she could even be referring to. Oh yeah, I forgot. Scrambled eggs for brains. Anyway, she said she was going to come over with the cops and get the birth certificates and "her stuff". All of her things have been out of here for months. I told her if she wanted the birth certificates, she could come get them today during the day before 5. Reason being, I won't be here. I am afraid to be around her by myself. I have had several people tell me that she has been trying to show them bruises on her face, saying that I beat her recently. I'm afraid she has reached the point of self harm to try to convince people that I am abusive towards her. The last thing I need is her coming by the house, going home and smacking her head on a table a few times, and then heading into the police to say I did it. My mom will be here today watching the kids while I go to work, so if she wants the birth certificates so bad, she can get them from her...
Me: 38 W:31 Kids: S16(mine from previous R), D10, S9, S4 M: 10 years T:12 years BD:Jan 3, 2018 W moved out: Apr 13,2018 Filed for D: Jun 2018 D final: Sep 2019
It sounds like you are already doing it, but be careful, cover your @ss and document every interaction you have with WW. She sounds absolutely nuts and unstable.
W 34 Me 42 Married 7 years together 8 0 kids 1 beloved dog BD 4/6/2018 I moved out 4/7/2018 I moved back in alone 8/05/2018 I file 3/06/2019 D official 5/7/2019
MTB, seems like it comes in waves of lunacy, then calm, then lunacy, then calm. Both our WW's do it. We should start tracking lunar charts or something.
Yours is volatile and confrontational, mine is cold and calculating.
Like the Joker and Lex Luther.
Stay frosty brother. she doesnt have a leg to stand on, the cops have her number. Document Document Document.
M: 35, EX-W: 3, S:4 All Divorce Proceedings Complete - Oct 18 ----------------------------------------------------- 2nd EX - Was Engaged - Diagnosed BPD 2 Major breakups. 2 Rebounds
Me: 38 W:31 Kids: S16(mine from previous R), D10, S9, S4 M: 10 years T:12 years BD:Jan 3, 2018 W moved out: Apr 13,2018 Filed for D: Jun 2018 D final: Sep 2019
