Glad I found a place to talk

[Jim1234]

Don't read anything into the fact that she wasn't OK doing it. Give her time.

[SteveLW]

I am disappointed for you that the meeting got cancelled. Is there a chance for a reschedule?

[Kindred]

Idk. I think she is finding out the pastors are not doing the meeting the way she expected. They are encouraging her to meet me by herself and she doesn't want that

[Vanilla]

Kindred

I think your W is correct, rebook with pastor or have pastor recommend someone to be in his shoes.

That makes sense to me.

V

[Kindred]

Wish me luck finally sitting down with the wife.hopefully I will find out something I can work with

[Jim1234]

Good luck! Validate, validate, validate

[Kindred]

So she has asked for a divorce. She says god has asked her to leave and she is me 6 months before we sell the family home. She wants me to have visitation with her child

[OrangeK]

my advice here is to not get talked into filing divorce unless you want to. If she's the one asking for it and you don't want it let her do the work and file the papers. Do your own thing and just keep staying positive.

[Kindred]

I'm having a hard time staying postive. The announcement came as a surprise to the pastor even. Getting back to work is nice since I get a way to kinda of forget but do I just ignore her? Keep talking to her like nothing happened? She knows I won't do the paperwork so she is starting that by herself

[Vanilla]

God has asked her to leave? Really?

If she wishes out of your M then that's on her. It is ok to want to be out of an M but blaming God for it?

So it seems the reason she wanted the pastor there was for support in case you said something to her.

You can't ignore this but you don't have to help her file. Say that isn't what you want and she can file but you won't help.

You may need to see an L.

This is hurtful I know.

V