Still treading water

[sjohns6]

short summary then

no more talk about moving or D

spent time with the kids this weekend and had fun

hung out with some friends too

feeling better

[sjohns6]

I'm a talker and want to make a long post

Whats the secret? I work in IT...lets fix this thing!

[sjohns6]

[job]

I understand your frustration with the disappearing postings. Everyone is frustrated w/this nonsense. Cadet and I have had several email communications with Virginia about the matter and the IT folks are aware of the problem. As of today, I haven't heard anything more about the issue, but we are entering week three of this glitch. Everyone is trying different things to see what will work for them. As a moderator, I too have had a couple of missing postings...so whatever the issue is, it's not affecting one or two people, but a number of posters across the forum.

All we can do is ask for your patience while we wait for answers/responses from Colorado.

[sjohns6]

[Gordie]

What is up

Are you not an it guy

[sjohns6]

lol

yes i am. i need access to the servers to fix this thing

[sjohns6]

Doing a lot better today

I am not sure what is different but i think i am finally detaching

I thought that before but i was faking it till i made it

this time i actually FEEL it

[sjohns6]

Not that things are better between us, I just dont feel the attachment I was feeling and am not being triggered by her every move

doesnt feel like this will be the fix for us but more like the beginning of the end. Nice not to feel so down though. Finally feel like I might pull through ok. I always KNEW I would just didnt feel it.

[Gordie]

This is a non linear process

The more you can separate your own healing process the better

Great you are not watching and reacting to her every move

That is exhausting and fruitless

How is your GAL

How are your friendships

How is your spirit