RD yes it did take a few posts and even then I am not sure I ever got there ..perhaps time away from here may have helped perhaps,it was just the passing of time
Well Christmas was fantastic I had all my children with me ...strangely I did feel a little sad for My stbxw I gave her the chance to join us but she declained ...so hey ho no worries moee turkey for me !
Taking my younger children back and leaving them with my soon to be ex was hard again I'm not sure what is going to help getting into the routine perhaps time perhaps
So New Year's resolutions join a gym workout lose some of my weight this has been a hurdle for many years but one that this year I intend to crack
In January I intend to try and lose iat least one stone
I will post
I wish you all a fantastic New Year and I know that 2018 will be better for many
Me:48 W 41 M:18 T:26 2 D 18 & 4 2 S 17 & 13 Bomb: 20/7/2015 in house separation D filed 06/17 Separate houses 10/17 D Final 29/12//17.
Hi G, a really change in your posts and its great to read. You got to spend Xmas with your kids, that's brilliant. Time does help but you have to let it. Live for the future and not the past. I look forward to reading more positive posts. Happy New year.
Well new year comes in the post the news that I am now officially Divorced a free man so to speak
Two years ago I am not sure how I would have reacted ...very different to how I felt when I got the news
I get to have my younger kids with me every other weekend in Devon and I will be arranging to try to see them in between
Love having my older kids living with me lots to do at the new house that still needs sorting but my plan is to start arranging evenings out with the older kids gokart racing and climbing
Looking at booking a holiday a week away with or without my kids don't really mind might book into a tennis holiday always fancied this
Ex W is still cold towards me but I actually can now find myself standing up to her and am not really too worried about her plans
Sure from time to time I think about the past and missing her but it is easier for me to get grip and focus on my new life
Going to try to hang out a bit and see if I can give a bit back to the people here
Take care and remember it is not about achieving your goal it is about maintaing your goal
Ghost
Me:48 W 41 M:18 T:26 2 D 18 & 4 2 S 17 & 13 Bomb: 20/7/2015 in house separation D filed 06/17 Separate houses 10/17 D Final 29/12//17.
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Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
Hi G, great to see another positive post, it's a hard journey but your a good way through it. I look forward to seeing more of the same positive stuff.
